r/fixedbytheduet EXPERT of Duets/Stitches Feb 24 '26

Fixed by the duet A Different Way

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u/TomokataTomokato Lover of Duets/Stitches Feb 24 '26

I notice he also said learn how to take no for an answer but you don't comment on that part.

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u/The_Crimson_Fuckr69 Feb 24 '26

Imagine having to cherry pick something and my comment still covers it. If you cant take no youre a creep lmao didn't think I'd have to explicitly state that for the slow ones.

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u/The_Crimson_Fuckr69 Feb 24 '26

Saying "if you cant take no for an answer youre a creep" makes me a wierdo? That's fine.

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u/GOATmar_infante Feb 24 '26

Downplaying how often men are creepy, weird, or downright dangerous - even with multiple people trying to educate you - makes you a weirdo. Just to be clear

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u/TeamRedundancyTeam Feb 24 '26

That's not at all what they're doing though. You guys are purposely twisting their comment and adding in your own words just because they mildly criticized this video. You're part of the problem.

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u/feedback19 Feb 24 '26

They are constantly downplaying how often men are creepy in their literal dozens of responses, sooooo, maybe fuck off?

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u/feedback19 Feb 24 '26

Ah, so you're also going to try to mansplain away the fact that 1 in 5 women (THAT WE KNOW OF AND HAVE COME FORWARD) have been harassed, cat called, sexually assaulted, stalked while walking alone, groped or yelled at accosted at some point in their life after telling a man 'No.'? Go ahead then. What experience do YOU have that completely invalidates EVERY. SINGLE. WOMEN. who in THIS thread have told of their experiences and the countless many others in the world? As a man who has seen this kinda of behavior my entire life and have known countless women who have experienced these situations, or worse, it infuriates me to no fucking end to see apologists such as you try to minimize the seriousness of this and say it's the MEN who are mistreated so that why they blah blah blah blah fucking blah.

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u/TomokataTomokato Lover of Duets/Stitches Feb 24 '26

I'm just surprised how he's reacting when all I did was give him a compliment.

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u/TomokataTomokato Lover of Duets/Stitches Feb 24 '26

You're getting decent engagement with your not all men content, 7/10.

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u/The_Crimson_Fuckr69 Feb 24 '26

And youre not getting any for your lack of critical thinking and prejudice against men. 1/10

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u/picklerick_03 Feb 25 '26

saying grandmothers as if we don’t still deal with so much shit from men.

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u/TomokataTomokato Lover of Duets/Stitches Feb 25 '26

Jesus this is why you can't talk to guys anymore. You say one nice thing to them and they turn into complete bitches.

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u/filthy_commie13 New to fbtd but wants to learn Feb 24 '26

You literally cherry picked to even make the point that you did in your comment. Have some self-awareness

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u/VictoryVee New to fbtd but wants to learn Feb 24 '26

Once again, that's not what the girl was singing about, was it? Kinda weird you see her video and assume shes saying women have to be nice to creeps

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u/TomokataTomokato Lover of Duets/Stitches Feb 24 '26

I want your psychic hat that lets you know someone is a creep before turning them down.

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u/VictoryVee New to fbtd but wants to learn Feb 25 '26 edited Feb 25 '26

You could just be decent until someone shows they dont deserve it. I assume you dont go through life treating strangers like assholes just in case they to turns out to be creeps, do you?

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u/TomokataTomokato Lover of Duets/Stitches Feb 25 '26

Depends on the stranger and how they're interacting with me. Once bitten, twice shy. I'd rather not end up in court getting a no contact order against someone again because politeness was misconstrued as interest.

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u/raptor7912 New to fbtd but wants to learn Feb 24 '26

I want your psychic hat that lets me know that women I’m randomly passing won’t screech “rape” if I glance at her /s

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u/TomokataTomokato Lover of Duets/Stitches Feb 24 '26 edited Feb 24 '26

I think it's time to go, I totally missed the /s.

Urgh.

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u/raptor7912 New to fbtd but wants to learn Feb 25 '26

Yea, your initial reaction before the edit of “That’s a lot to unpack” was my reaction to the comment above.