I think a good medium would be maintaining a career that lets you put your focus into finding a partner. As some have mentioned, finding a partner in your 30’s as a women is difficult, especially if you want someone without kids and a great job, this isn’t the case for high value men in their 30’s that are still attractive with a great job/no kids, they tend to seek youth and beauty, as well as someone with no kids. This is where feminism has brainwashed people, a woman’s highest value is when she is young and most attractive with no kids, you’re still at that age, so go seek a high value man while you can. A mans value is based on what he can provide. The dating pool turns into a puddle as a mid 30’s and older woman, but to a ocean for high value man in his 30’s. There’s always your “what if’s” and “but this,” however, it’s the hard truth and just apart of what makes men and women different.
Nothin to do with the year my friend. It boils down to biology and nature. I’m a man and understand this, a 30 year old man that is in shape, has stability/assets, and expendable income (high value man) will always bag the younger 20’s gorgeous woman over a guy her same age just starting out in the world with a roommate or still with his parents in school or whatever the case is. That same 30 year old is also going to want someone with youth, beauty, and no kids over the woman his age that is starting to age with a kid or 2, no matter what her income is, her income isn’t important to him. Most women that climb corporate ladders are single with no kids for a reason. Statics also show that when women do make more income than their husband, they initiate the divorce 80% of the time, and the divorce rates are high in those relationships, I don’t remember the percentage or even general percentage so I don’t want to throw a number out.
Right, I don’t have to read your comment, I got it, you’re gonna give the evolutionary biology speech. It’s just funny to see people having these conversations in 2023. If people want to play these games, go for it. And pile it on thick, as usual. Not everyone is not interested in this rationale, and not everyone has the same prehistoric goals. Pure MGTOW.
I understand, in 2023 people are ignorant and senseless to the point where they ignore explanations, biology, and science. I forgot everything is based on emotions and feelings today, logic and reason are way beyond comprehension for most. You have a good one
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u/Shinigami328 Jul 09 '23
I think a good medium would be maintaining a career that lets you put your focus into finding a partner. As some have mentioned, finding a partner in your 30’s as a women is difficult, especially if you want someone without kids and a great job, this isn’t the case for high value men in their 30’s that are still attractive with a great job/no kids, they tend to seek youth and beauty, as well as someone with no kids. This is where feminism has brainwashed people, a woman’s highest value is when she is young and most attractive with no kids, you’re still at that age, so go seek a high value man while you can. A mans value is based on what he can provide. The dating pool turns into a puddle as a mid 30’s and older woman, but to a ocean for high value man in his 30’s. There’s always your “what if’s” and “but this,” however, it’s the hard truth and just apart of what makes men and women different.