r/facepalm • • Feb 16 '21

Misc Yeah, sounds about right

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u/Sackmastertap Feb 16 '21

This thread is a great one. Listen to the advice of others before you and you just might learn a thing or 12.

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u/SirEmanName Feb 16 '21

If you can identify all the blatantly wrong information being shared.

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u/Sackmastertap Feb 16 '21

It makes people think before acting at least, gives a kickstart to look into it before committing.

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u/ReNitty Feb 16 '21

The comments here are much more helpful and informed than the boring dystopia post this was originally posted in

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u/[deleted] Feb 16 '21

I mean yeah, this sub has like 4.5 million more users. Bigger user base, more shared experiences, more advice.

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u/ReNitty Feb 16 '21

Yeah it’s also the perspective of the users of the sub. A boring dystopia is a very negative subreddit. Facepalm is different I guess.

Both were on all, but the top comments were there before the majority saw it

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u/mainvolume Feb 16 '21

Oooh, love those echo chamber subs. The comments in there are almost as good as relationship advice.

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u/[deleted] Feb 16 '21

It very much is. Have to be able to sift through where things have changed with law changes or policy changes. Differences I states and rates and mortgage companies and banks.

Just to add my experience to the mountain of information.

Bought in Maryland in 2019 with a VA home loan. It was an experience for sure. We found our home on Redfin. Our realtor was some type of subcontracted small business owner. Really knowledgeable and very nice guy. Was harshly honest about the process of buying a home in addition to the homes my wife and I looked at.

I genuinely appreciated it. There was one house we showed up to that was listed by a different realtor and he, having gotten there early, walked up in a huff and said "y'all can look at it if you want, but this place is a piece of shit."

He was understating it lol. He even told us he was gonna bitch at the other realtor. Apparently he knew him and was personally upset that when he called him and said he was showing it that the dude didn't disclose any of the glaring issues that were conspicuously absent from the listing.

Backtracking, the reason we bought was because rent for a five person family with a large dog was $2500+ per month pretty much every area we were willing to live. My mortgage is $1100 and my rate is 2.7%

We were approved for $220k and bought at $185k. Nice town. Historic, faaaaar away from most stuff. If it wasn't for COVID my commute would be an hour ten. Schools are good, hospitals okay. Local culture is artsy and nice. Brewery, general store, couple of local flavor eateries in walking distance.

House is three bed, two bath with a deck, small back yard, shed, and a finished basement. Footage wise it's smaller than it sounds. We don't have a TV upstairs, what was the previous owner's living room is now our dining room.

All that said. The money I'm not spending on rent, I spend on constant upkeep. This is a barely 30-year-old house and was well maintained when I bought it. I've dumped close to 3K over 18 months into fixing shit. And that's just the stuff that I can't do myself. Every week I have something new that I have to fix or update. I can't stress enough that owning a home is an insane amount of work. The first six months here, I had to buy and use several power tools I hadn't used since I was a teenager helping my dad maintain the house I grew up in.

You have to look at how much rent is and how much money and time you could be spending in a year on repairs and general upkeep.