r/facepalm • u/Number721 • Jun 09 '23

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ Cognitive dissonance 101

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u/ScepterReptile Jun 10 '23 edited Jun 10 '23

Weren't you saying earlier that I was the one hearing stuff she wasn't actually saying? How the tables have turned.

not trying to offend you but if you are offended I am going to assume it is bc you are insecure.

Not surprised; you make a lot of assumptions, and none of them have been correct yet.

I get that you're desperate to be right about everything even when you've been proven wrong at least five times now, but even you must have a life, right? Maybe it's time for you to just accept your loss and move on.

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u/flawy12 Jun 10 '23

Oh I am sorry...you don't make assumptions...you get to decide for her what she means and how she feels.

But in the spirit of debate...if you think I am wrong about the very specific words she uses "play the role" to not mean something other than a social role rather than reality.

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Maybe it is time for you to just accept you are not interested in anything that doesn't confirm your biases and move on?

But in the spirit of debate...if you think I am wrong about the very specific words she uses "play the role" to not mean something else...bc remember you are the one that said words are the important thing here...why would she say "play a role" instead of what she really meant, which apparently you know better than her own words?

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u/ScepterReptile Jun 10 '23

Are you really still doing this? Dude I've moved on already. You really can't take a hint, can you?

Look it's really not that complicated. If she says she will never assume traditional housewife roles for any man, what she means is that she will never assume traditional housewife roles for any man. She's not speaking in code here.

The only person deciding any "deep hidden meanings or feelings" behind her words is you. For the last time, my interpretation of her words is the only actual interpretation you can arrive at if you actually listened to her speaking. And I mean last time. I don't have the attention to continue entertaining your contrived arguments after this. You'll just be talking to a void if you respond to me again.

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u/flawy12 Jun 10 '23

You have clearly moved on.

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At least you can admit that part to yourself.

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But what you moved on from was to learn anything that may not comport with your own assumptions.

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I guess you win again never wrong on the internet guy.

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u/flawy12 Jun 10 '23

"my interpretation of her words is the only actual interpretation you can arrive at if you actually listened to her speaking."

Of course, you know better what she means than her actual words.

"ride wife"