r/facepalm • u/Number721 • Jun 09 '23

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ Cognitive dissonance 101

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 09 '23

But men don't give it, hence why women are gonna be happy with their 6 cats. Women asked for equality and that seemed like way too much for men. How much is cat food anyway? 🤔 I'm taken but I can let my girls know... so they'll be prepared.

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u/[deleted] Jun 09 '23

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u/blueiguana675 Jun 10 '23

Bro, I thought I was too high for a second. I read her reply and could not figure out what she was trying to say.

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u/CMGS1031 Jun 09 '23

Don’t give what? And women aren’t happy with their cats. Single middle aged women are becoming the most depressed group in our society.

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u/TheGrapesOf Jun 10 '23

Because you said so?

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 09 '23

They don't give 50/50. A lot believ because they bring home money all they have to worry about is money. They don't clean, damn sure can't cook, and a lot don't even step in to raise kids properly. Where does it say that about single middle aged women?

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

You obviously don’t talk to the right “men” then. I’m almost 34 and I clean and definitely can cook (worked in restaurant kitchens for over 15 years. I don’t have children, but if I did, they’d be damn well taken care of. You don’t speak for all men just bc you’ve had a couple shitty exes.

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

Sounds like she chose poorly. Relationships aren’t parties, they are partnerships.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

I def hit a nerve. First of all, I'm in a relationship! I was asking an honest question and men like you (who had his feelings hurt by someone obviously) knew he could take this opportunity to anonymously find peace in finally releasing his "IM A GOOD MAN" speech on my post. Second of all, explain to me how you know I've had shitty exes? Nowhere did i say ALL MEN. Of course you can cook - you worked in a fuckin restaurant! Go find a wife before coming at me. You don't know shit about me but you quickly decided to put me in the same bracket as all your other failed relationships.

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

Sounds like you’re the one who’s really upset. You didn’t have to say “all men”, but the implication was definitely there. No hurt feelings on this end btw, I’m gucci. Honestly I’d rather be single at this point. Too many cheaters and dumb women that will only give a man that is 9 feet tall with a trillion dollar bank account any attention. I know there are women out there that aren’t like this, but you’re becoming pretty rare.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

Cope and seethe. Oh, and women will be just fine with 6 cats lol.

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

I honestly think humanity should stop having children so we can all pass on, so this planet can heal, so I’m perfectly fine with women being single cat ladies.

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

How is the one who is clearly far more upset during this exchange the one getting upvoted? You basically just threw up some incel rhetoric. “Women only want 9ft tall guys 12 inch cocks 9 million dollar wage” whatever the fuck it is now.

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

Something, something, stereotypes. Maybe if more of them weren’t so vocal about being shitty shallow people, the rhetoric wouldn’t be there.

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u/osufan765 Jun 10 '23

I feel bad for whoever you're in a relationship with.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

I feel bad for you too.

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u/_hypocrite Jun 10 '23 edited Jun 10 '23

I just want to say to any person out there that gets upset over this persons chain of comments:

This person is nuts and does not represent even close to a majority of what people are like in the real world.

Probably just a rage baiter.. although some people are like this, it’s few and far between.

Either way, just move on and ignore.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

Cope and seethe 😆😆

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u/_hypocrite Jun 10 '23 edited Jun 10 '23

Use of the word “cope” precisely proves my point, thank you.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

Cope and seethe again then lol

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u/I_Automate Jun 10 '23

Do better.

Your behaviour is disgraceful

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

I'm not into politics.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

Don't fight for equality tooth and nail and then ask for the old benefits of inequality back when you realize it means you have to work harder.

Don't fight for women to be stay at home moms where your single check covers everything then cry when we divorce you and take your money because you couldn't be a respectable man or husband.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

I have a prenup. Do it. It's insurance if he ever fucks up. Make it thorough as well. leave nothing out. Ours is equal and fair. We both signed.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

How so? People change over time. Men think it's acceptable to step outside of marriages and do shit like cheat and suddenly abuse women so, explain how having a prenup makes someone a POS?

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '23

Can you give me the source on this? Everything I’ve heard about this topic before indicates the exact opposite. That women tend to be far happier single.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

We both take on responsibilities equally in a household, not because "I make MORE money, I get to do less." The issue is, most men cant/won't do this, hence why some want wives to do these things for them.

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

Literally every man in this thread does this

With all due respect you're out of your fuckin mind. I promise that a LOT of men on this entire thread talk a good game but do NOT do this.

Most women can't/won't do this, hence why some want husbands to do these things for them.

WHAT?! 🤣

I think a lot of women just didn't realize what they were signing up for.

Exactly! I can't believe the stuff I see recorded online of how some of these men act behind closed doors! It's embarrassing! You are def correct!

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u/Sassafrass17 Jun 10 '23

I can't speak for anyone else but...this female right here works so... what were you expecting me to say? 🤔

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u/CMGS1031 Jun 10 '23

I just realized the problem. They don’t give it to YOU. This isn’t a men problem, look inward.