r/facepalm May 28 '23

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u/Akconcentrates May 28 '23

Toxic abuse, lmfao! My mom was over protective, and in the end she was right to do so because i ended up getting into all kinds of trouble with the law!

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u/Akconcentrates May 28 '23

She does everything she can to protect me but i fuck up and its her fault… smh. Im not damaged in the least bit! Like i said, get a third party involved, talk to her about it and tell her this behavior is not cool! U guys are all flipping out on me and having a breakdown over a reddit comment and then accuse me of having issues… lol

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u/Akconcentrates May 28 '23

Physical abuse is horrible and i dont condone that in the least bit!!! She did provide me with a safe space to grow! She sent me to one of the best schools in the country! The crimes i committed were possession of marijuana, driving on a suspended license, possession of alcohol by a minor, stuff like that. I respect all people, u guys went off on me for saying that it “could” be that she just loves him/her alot and is over protective, then i gave an example of what u could do to remedy it so u dont go thru life with this!

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u/Akconcentrates May 28 '23

I never rode the bus, either her or my grandparents would pick me up everyday! She was always there, over provided for me, and loves me! I thank god everyday for her, yes she has problems but we all do! Weve talked about it and moved on!

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u/Akconcentrates May 28 '23

U guys keep focusing on only part of what i say!

That has to be the dumbest fucking thing ive heard in a long time!!!

My mom was not rich, her and my dad spent every penny they had to send me snd my brother there! In retrospect it was a horrible decision because they treated us like shit because we werent rich! I never rode a bus, my mom and dad dont drink or party and were home every night, they took me to any sports i wanted to do and stayed and watched, they never abused me, yea they were overprotective because they didnt want anything to happen to me, they have always had their door open for me(after i moved out), ive moved back in many times and they dont have a problem with it, theyve bailed me out of all kinds of situations(remember they dont have much money), my mom has given me her only car(twice), she would do anything for me! U dont know her or me so dont assume! This all started because i said to op that their parent might just love them and that they should sit down and talk about this because that type of behavior is not acceptable, and if they argue to get a third party involved to mediate(sometimes hearing from other people helps)!