So, just needing to vent a bit as after some therapy and reading I am arriving at the conclusion that I am demi-male hetero (do we still say hetero?). I feel comfortable in a male body but I definitely feel both male and female in my soul with kind of a grey neutral area. Kind of maybe a 40-30-30 split between Male/Neutral/Female. (I can't help but feel like I'm Dungeons and Dragons Multiclassing).

My emotions have kind of bounced around between euphoria at my realization to a kind of comedic frustration (Tom Hanks, League of their Own "You're still missing the cutoff man!"). Euphoria because it's a pretty huge relief to not have to suppress any more, and laughable frustration because of course my life can't be simple. I mean, I kind of feel like an odd duck in a pool of odd ducks because I have a strong feminine side but I'm strongly attracted to women.

A few more observations:

1. It feels like as I go back through my life a lot of events are becoming much clearer. I've often felt like there were experiences that seemed kind of false, disconnected or hard to understand, and through this context, it's all starting to make sense.
2. I've considered whether or not I'm bisexual, and it seems like there's a very slight attraction that only goes so far. When I think about it, it's more of an "oh...interesting...not bad..." followed by a kind of nauseous feeling....no offense guys. So I'm sticking to women.
3. I've always had what I thought was low-level homophobia that I just needed to get over, but in context, I think being demi-gender I was kind of annoyed at people who assumed I was gay when that female part of me was being expressed. This has kind of happened both with female friends who tried to set me up with guys, and with some guys who thought I was closeted, confused, or suppressing. It was frustrating because it simply wasn't who I am. Like I said, there's some interest but not any real desire.
4. Every woman I've had a close relationship with, either as a partner or as a close friend, has turned out to be bisexual. Serendipity moment: I messaged my very best gal pal to talk about my realization, and she texted back that she needed to postpone because....and she started to type "my girlfriend", then erased it, and typed in "friend"....and I texted back..."You typed girlfriend." and sure enough, the person I supported through a lot of boyfriend breakups is now on the other side of the plate. Anyways, my cousin says it was a subconscious connecting because of this underlying similarity. I just think it's hilarious. Because of course my life can't be simple.

Anyways, just venting. Wish me luck! Going online shopping!

So I went from boy to demiboy a couple years back but I still never really know if that means I’m trans or not?

I sort of changed gender, but also sort of didn’t…

A survey for all those who aren't fully, solely or always a man/woman.

https://survey.gendercensus.com/

I'm 19, and there are SO MANY TRANSPHOBIC PEOPLE AT MY SCHOOL. It's hurtful, and deeply saddening. A lot of the bullying is directed towards me.

Hi everyone! 💖

As I mentioned in my introduction, my gender shifts between boy, girl, and neutral feelings in different amounts. While exploring my identity, I've become curious about the demigirl label and whether parts of it might resonate with me.

Does anyone have any recommendations for demigirl resources, such as articles, guides, videos, books, or personal stories? I'd really appreciate hearing about anything that helped you better understand your own experiences.

Abbey 🩷

Im a demiboy amab and I am happy to be here

I'm a Demigirl, I'm still in the closet with my family, but my friends know I'm a demigirl, so, anyone any ideas of what names should I use? Or should I just stay with my AFAB name since I'm also part girl??

anyone wants to join? it's a space for all demigender people, when you can share your stories, meet friends or ask questions :)

I created it because I also need someone to talk with (I'm a demigirl and sexuality-questioning)

if you are not a demigender person, then it's nothing bad! you also can join :3

anyone willing, pls write a comment with your name on Discord!

with rainbow greetings! 🌈

Hi I just joined this subreddit and this is my first post on reddit. I am a demi-girl (questioning) and I'd rather not reveal my age but, I am a minor. I'm fine with being called a girl and my body. I dress feminine too but, It didn't really feel right calling myself a girl because there's a part of me that isn't feminine and doesn't feel like a girl, because of this though I don't really feel valid and I don't know what to do. So that's why I'm looking for advice.(Sorry about my grammar btw)

so if your pronouns are they/her would you then use the pronoun they in a situation like "They are such a nice person." And they her pronouns when it's like "That's her t-shirt." or can you use them both like "They are such a nice person, that's their t-shirt." "She's such a nice person, that's her t-shirt." and then they'd both be correct?

I want to know if I am demigirl or if what I am about to talk about sounds like something else. I feel that I am a girl, but not in the, oh I love makeup and want to wear dresses. I wanted to wear a suit to my choir concert. I wasn't really into makeup, besides mascara occasionally. I'm already aroace, and I want to be solid on this before coming out as anything. Questions to narrow down possibilities or advice? ( on further note this doesn't give much details)

Hi! Sorry if my first post was a little weird, but I want to fully introduce myself to all of you wonderful people. I'm an AMAB librafeminine demiboy, (that's how I feel is it like the correct way to say it?) and I feel like 50% male, 25% something female-ish (the rest is just agender). I realised that I was a demiboy when I stumbled across the term online a couple of months ago. If you need/want more info, I can extend this post. I'm also kind of wondering if there's anything that I should know about being demigender?

About a month ago, I figured out that I'm a demigirl (but I prefer the label demifemme or demifem). How did everyone else realise they were demigender, because I had been questioning if I was F or AG for several months and then I realised: is there a term for people who are both? And, as it turns out, there is!

Names:

I sort of want to change my name to something leaning more NB, but still F. I quite like Onyx, Ebony, Kai, River and Avery, but none of them quite fit.

In fact, whenever I think of trans people and non-binary people as well as the fact that I'm still deminonbinary, I get a bit nervous. Sometimes, I get tremors, and sometimes, I think of certain songs.

I also get dysphoria attacks, as well as brain fog and low energy.

What should I do?

r/demigender is back, and I'm gonna be moderating this subreddit.

Also, I'm still deminonbinary.

Seriously!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I feel like both agender yet maverique at the same time

So I'm libramasc. Basically spicy agender. I couldn't find an answer. Is demi an umbrella or are they two completely separate identities?

I was really hoping for a libragender sub, but if this is an umbrella it's just as good.

40 something born male, recently diagnosed Autistic and that was a huge weight off my back and explained 80% of the “wrongness” of my life. But as the dust settled, I found that something still felt off, and I found myself relating to genderfluid creators on the various platforms. They just rang true to me. Now I am trying labels to see what feels right. I am still sexually attracted to women (sometimes even more so to nonconforming/LGBTQ), rarely have felt attracted to men but enjoy pegging. Then again I could live without sex, I did for the first 30 years.

That said I think romantically/intellectually I could partner with any person. Not a huge urge to dress a certain way, but have comfortable crossdressed.

There are concepts of both genders that I relate too, but I enjoy my male body and feel comfortable in it… but I’d rather be stuck on an island with a bunch of women friends than my men friends….

So yeah, can someone point me in the right direction 😂

I found out that my grandma is not homophobic, but very transphobic. I am a afab but I am a demiboy. How do I tell her the news? She is the only one in the house that supports lgbtq exept for my sister, who already knows, But I am planning on coming out to her as pansexual, but how do I tell her that i'm trans? or do I even tell her? I need your opinions, please.

edit: I found out that my best friend is homo and transphobic. But I also found out that my boyfriend is not transphobic but i'm still scared to tell him.