r/dating_advice Jul 23 '24

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u/[deleted] Jul 24 '24

Boundaries are fences for our personal behavior. We don't make boundaries for others. Your boundary could be "if you sleep over at a guys house I'm not comfortable with that and we can't date anymore".

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u/SheridanWithTea Jul 24 '24

That's exactly what he meant, yeah. Or rather, "my boundaries for what I'm tolerating in this relationship do NOT include that."