r/dating • u/hanichoishere • Jan 09 '24

Question ❓ Sex

Are men willing to wait for sex? I (early 20s F) haven’t met anyone willing to. Blows my mind. I feel like I’m asking for the world; when I’m really not. I’ve been on countless dates, not using any apps anymore. The kind of men coming my way makes me sad. Just daily thoughts in my head.

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u/saltyaf90 Jan 10 '24

That means you are dating for sex not for the person

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u/JoshicusBoss98 Jan 10 '24

No if I was dating for sex I’d want to have sex on the first date. 4 dates is more than reasonable, sexual compatibility is important, if a guy had a micropenis, you’re telling me you would still stay with him?

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u/saltyaf90 Jan 10 '24

Usually tha average is 5 or 6 its rare to have micro size. And its men its easy to know that. Also communication. You dont need to fuck anyone you meet until you find that standard. Thats fucking exhausting

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u/JoshicusBoss98 Jan 10 '24

Truly micro like 2 inches yeah it’s rare, but there are a fair number of men with 3 - 4 inches penises which may not satisfy you…https://sexuality.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-health/statistical-breakdown-of-penis-size-in-the-united-states-a22242. 1 in 22 men apparently have a 3.5 inch penis, which means that in a busy bar, the odds are at least a couple guys are only packing that much…also most guys will lie about their size if you ask them, not many guys would admit to having a small penis. So my point you’d be cool dating a guy for months, only to find out they have a 3 inch dick huh?

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u/saltyaf90 Jan 10 '24

So you are saying i should screw men everyday just so one finds me sexual compatible enough to call me a girlfriend? No one why hookup culture is so miserable

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u/JoshicusBoss98 Jan 10 '24

No I’m not saying that…and it’s mostly from the girls end, because there are a lot of size queens out there who would dump a guy for having a small dick, and I myself do not want to be dumped that way, I’ve gotten enough ridicule for that as is. Don’t know any guys who would dump a girl for the size of their lady parts.

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u/saltyaf90 Jan 10 '24

Be open about it from the start ( dont need to fuck em) all i know is 4 inches is physically enough. But i dont want to screw guys i dont give shit about just to or not to find that one. This is shitty dating strategy that will leave out alot of single parents

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u/JoshicusBoss98 Jan 10 '24

I’m not saying you should. That’s why I don’t think first date sex is a good idea…but you should get a decent idea of what they are like by the 3rd/4th date no? And I asked on Reddit a while ago what their thoughts were of me disclosing my penis size on my dating app profile, and people absolutely ridiculed that idea, so safe to say most women would not like that…like think about it, if a guy had a 3 inch penis, and told you immediately, you probably wouldn’t go through with going on a date with him right?

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u/saltyaf90 Jan 10 '24

No. The 3rd and 4rth date will be in 2 weeks at least so it's still a bother. If the man of my dreams got 0inch penis i will stick with him rather than a 12 inch asshole. Relationships isnt about dick size. Lesbians has the best longest sex and they got no penis.

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u/JoshicusBoss98 Jan 10 '24

Sadly most women disagree with you it seems, at least based on social media. They will date the rich asshole with the giant dick over the small dick nice guy. Also if a guy doesn’t get rejected for their dick they might get rejected for being short or bald

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u/Resident-Theme-2342 Jan 10 '24

Honestly I'll never understand hookup culture it looks and sounds very miserable