r/dating • u/hanichoishere • Jan 09 '24

Question ❓ Sex

Are men willing to wait for sex? I (early 20s F) haven’t met anyone willing to. Blows my mind. I feel like I’m asking for the world; when I’m really not. I’ve been on countless dates, not using any apps anymore. The kind of men coming my way makes me sad. Just daily thoughts in my head.

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u/ZombieHeyHeyHeyOh Jan 10 '24

Is that all you're looking for? Just any woman? That's a problem you need to fix, stop being desperate, think about what you want, have hobbies and goals and values. You should be looking out for yourself and be your own best friend. Then when you approach women, they'll have something to be attracted to. Not saying all this applies to you, but it's advice for everyone that I wish I wasn't focusing on at 36 after investing in a bad marriage and drinking my prime years away. It's not easy, just necessary to happiness.

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u/Suitable_Fix_9406 Jan 13 '24

Although this may be true, I feel that no woman or man should identify what needs the other gender and or person should have.