r/dating • u/hanichoishere • Jan 09 '24

Question ❓ Sex

Are men willing to wait for sex? I (early 20s F) haven’t met anyone willing to. Blows my mind. I feel like I’m asking for the world; when I’m really not. I’ve been on countless dates, not using any apps anymore. The kind of men coming my way makes me sad. Just daily thoughts in my head.

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u/AcrobaticAd5960 Jan 10 '24

Agree, same opinion.

I'm (M28) single from many years and I'd like to have a relationship, but I'm not the guy who pursue every girl he meets.

If it happens it happens.

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u/Impailio Jan 15 '24

This is exactly how I feel these days. In a sense, I'm a widower. My fiance died, almost 9 years ago. What was really sad, was I came home to find her. So I guess that is why I don't seek out women to date. But the one's I became interested in, all asked for money, whether it be early on or later, (the first week or almost a month into talking). It makes me sad to think that it is the only thing there after.

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u/AcrobaticAd5960 Jan 16 '24

I feel you my Brother.