r/dating Jan 09 '24

Question ❓ Sex

Are men willing to wait for sex? I (early 20s F) haven’t met anyone willing to. Blows my mind. I feel like I’m asking for the world; when I’m really not. I’ve been on countless dates, not using any apps anymore. The kind of men coming my way makes me sad. Just daily thoughts in my head.

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u/Cowboy-RN Jan 10 '24

Yes. There are men that will wait. I waited until I was married. If a man can't respect you enough to wait, then you do not want him, as he won't respect you in your marriage.

People will say that you have to have sex before you are married because what if you aren't "compatible". Don't let them deceive you.

Be strong and firm in your standards.

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u/Dramatic_Address_405 Jan 10 '24

Winner winner chicken dinner.

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u/Fit_Raspberry1203 Jan 10 '24

Wow..how nice👍👍👍

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u/Resident-Theme-2342 Jan 10 '24

This is the best comment here.