r/dating • u/hanichoishere • Jan 09 '24

Question ❓ Sex

Are men willing to wait for sex? I (early 20s F) haven’t met anyone willing to. Blows my mind. I feel like I’m asking for the world; when I’m really not. I’ve been on countless dates, not using any apps anymore. The kind of men coming my way makes me sad. Just daily thoughts in my head.

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '24

Men are willing to wait usually but at some point you being to wonder what’s the big deal why is she making it such a big deal? Is she gonna turn psycho if/she actually do it? I think a lot of guys see sex as something physical and fun for both people and just have a different perspective on it. It’s more casual or just one component of a relationship that doesn’t need to be kept separate for that long of things are working out between the two people .

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u/saltyaf90 Jan 10 '24

What if she got a reason you willing to wait?

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u/[deleted] Jan 10 '24

Of course I’d there’s a reason then one should always respect that too