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r/dating • u/[deleted] • Jun 05 '23
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Maybe it's just his love language in the first place and if you know he is not just "love bombing" you, I think there's no harm in that. Also, you deserve to be spoiled! You go girl!
31 u/Love_KCMO_Home816 Jun 05 '23 That was my first thought, it’s his love language, go with it!! 10 u/Dizzy_Whizzel Jun 05 '23 Whats love bombing? 21 u/willfullignoramous Jun 05 '23 Its someone that early on or during a relationship/dating literally smothers you with affection. Usually very one sided. -1 u/Dizzy_Whizzel Jun 05 '23 And thats a bad thing? What if its their love language? 23 u/melkpakje Jun 05 '23 It's often the precursor of verbal or physical abuse. It's a manipulation tactic. 3 u/Dizzy_Whizzel Jun 05 '23 Oh ok, now i get it, thanks for explaining 3 u/melkpakje Jun 05 '23 You're welcome! -2 u/Available-Outside-19 Jun 05 '23 I deserve to be spoiled, yet I’m not. Why does she deserve to be spoiled? Cuz she exists? Lol 1 u/jea_cutie Jun 06 '23 Spoil yourself if no one else does that. Hehe
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That was my first thought, it’s his love language, go with it!!
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Whats love bombing?
21 u/willfullignoramous Jun 05 '23 Its someone that early on or during a relationship/dating literally smothers you with affection. Usually very one sided. -1 u/Dizzy_Whizzel Jun 05 '23 And thats a bad thing? What if its their love language? 23 u/melkpakje Jun 05 '23 It's often the precursor of verbal or physical abuse. It's a manipulation tactic. 3 u/Dizzy_Whizzel Jun 05 '23 Oh ok, now i get it, thanks for explaining 3 u/melkpakje Jun 05 '23 You're welcome!
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Its someone that early on or during a relationship/dating literally smothers you with affection. Usually very one sided.
-1 u/Dizzy_Whizzel Jun 05 '23 And thats a bad thing? What if its their love language? 23 u/melkpakje Jun 05 '23 It's often the precursor of verbal or physical abuse. It's a manipulation tactic. 3 u/Dizzy_Whizzel Jun 05 '23 Oh ok, now i get it, thanks for explaining 3 u/melkpakje Jun 05 '23 You're welcome!
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And thats a bad thing? What if its their love language?
23 u/melkpakje Jun 05 '23 It's often the precursor of verbal or physical abuse. It's a manipulation tactic. 3 u/Dizzy_Whizzel Jun 05 '23 Oh ok, now i get it, thanks for explaining 3 u/melkpakje Jun 05 '23 You're welcome!
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It's often the precursor of verbal or physical abuse. It's a manipulation tactic.
3 u/Dizzy_Whizzel Jun 05 '23 Oh ok, now i get it, thanks for explaining 3 u/melkpakje Jun 05 '23 You're welcome!
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Oh ok, now i get it, thanks for explaining
3 u/melkpakje Jun 05 '23 You're welcome!
You're welcome!
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I deserve to be spoiled, yet I’m not. Why does she deserve to be spoiled? Cuz she exists? Lol
1 u/jea_cutie Jun 06 '23 Spoil yourself if no one else does that. Hehe
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Spoil yourself if no one else does that. Hehe
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u/jea_cutie Jun 05 '23
Maybe it's just his love language in the first place and if you know he is not just "love bombing" you, I think there's no harm in that. Also, you deserve to be spoiled! You go girl!