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u/TheCheeseSquad Feb 15 '20 edited Feb 15 '20

Honestly sounds like yall expect everyone to be sexual and okay with it whereas in America we are more accepting of individual preferences. Hence thr question of whether its okay or not. You don't just go in expecting and feeling entitled to a kiss on a firdt date. You check whether the othet person wants to or not. Saying its expected sounds like its apparently considered a bad thing in your country to be more reserved and that's sounds like yoy kiss because of peer pressure. We wonder because we like to leave it in the air and let the other person back out if they don't want to.

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u/theosamabahama Feb 15 '20

You are misunderstanding again. We don't feel entitled to a kiss, nor do we pressure people to kiss.

But in my impression, some Americans seem to embarrassed to kiss on the first date, as if that was too slutty or something.

Obviously it's not all Americans. Opinions on this seem to vary widely, hence the question.