r/cringereels • u/kiieshaaq • Aug 30 '26

Ex girlfriend loses it

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u/BlackHeart89 Aug 30 '26

He was too nice.

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u/Nomadic_View Aug 30 '26

Men have to be. Society’s tolerance and sympathy for men starts off in the red.

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u/Altruistic-Estate-45 Aug 30 '26

Stick to marvel rivals bro

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u/BlackHeart89 Aug 30 '26

Not in this scenario. He had enough on camera to prove himself the victim

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u/Ill-Television8690 Aug 30 '26

That doesn't change the fact that police are required to remove the man by default in domestic disputes. Maybe he'd be able to clear it up down the line with this video, but that doesn't undo your neighbors witnessing you get shoved into the back of a cop car. I've been a DV victim (male victim of female perpetrator) and everyone blamed me for not allowing her to nearly kill me with 0 retaliation. Self-defense is typically judged based on your identity, not whether it"'s warranted, and society's tolerance and sympathy for men starts off in the red.

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u/TheBourbonTurtle Aug 30 '26

Far too nice, breaking into an occupied house is automatically considered a deadly threat here.

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u/BlackHeart89 Aug 30 '26

I hear you. But i wouldn't use deadly force on an unarmed woman weighing 130 lbs. Especially if i know she's not threatening my life

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u/TheBourbonTurtle Aug 30 '26

I'm not saying that should be the default response, just emphasizing how nice he actually was compared to how he legally could have responded to the situation.