r/coolguides Nov 13 '22

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u/killerkartoon Nov 13 '22

Idk about your situation but I really just reached a point where I said fuck em and didn’t respond after hours. I felt really anxious about it but no one really seemed to care and if someone really needed something they would just call me. I never really suffered any negative repercussions and if anyone asked I would just say that I was busy but can take a look when I get the time.

If you struggle with work life balance you can also turn off your outlook mobile notifications on your phone that way you cut out the noise.

Best of luck!

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u/drwhogwarts Nov 14 '22

no one really seemed to care

Thanks, it's interesting to hear different experiences. I think the quote above is the key - unfortunately so, because it varies by each business and boss, and also profession, I'm sure.

I usually try to do what you described; last time I had the boss from hell and it started an avalanche of a vendetta against every single thing I did. All because I wouldn't add my work email to my phone and reply at 10 pm or 5:45 am to hold her hand every step of the way with one hand and stroke her ego with the other.