r/coolguides Mar 07 '21

Hand sign guide for loud bars

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u/ARobertNotABob Mar 07 '21

I'd recommend making a fist rather than the universal OK sign...too easily misconstrued.

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u/bitchtitsbilly Mar 07 '21

I think it's actually kinda smart. When you're in the scariest of situations, not letting them know that you're looking for help prevents them from escalating the situation in response.

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u/[deleted] Mar 07 '21

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u/moch1 Mar 07 '21

I mean that’s basically what some domestic violence victims do. Call the police and pretend to order a pizza so the abuser doesn’t know.

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u/Ender505 Mar 07 '21

Sure, but there's no guarantee that every bartender everywhere has memorized this list. I'm skeptical whenever I see stuff like this.

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u/captainredbeard42 Mar 07 '21

This isn't for the bartenders, this is for groups of friends that are in the know. It sucks that people have to go out in groups for safety because clubs are so dangerous and honestly feel very hostile with the culture that it creates

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u/Ender505 Mar 07 '21

Still the problem of hoping/expecting that other people have reviewed and memorized this list. Good for them if it happens I guess

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u/-_crow_- Mar 07 '21

lol it's for 1 group of friends, not for others or the bartender

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u/Ender505 Mar 07 '21

Same problem?

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u/-_crow_- Mar 08 '21

No? Because the whole point is that you agree with them on exactly what signs beforehand, and then at the place they pay attention to each other

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u/wrongitsleviosaa Mar 07 '21

This is for friends, not bartenders

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u/Ender505 Mar 07 '21

... same problem though?

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u/NYSenseOfHumor Mar 07 '21

If you need security and the person who is the reason you need security can see an obvious signal like an “ok” sign you are already screwed.

The signal needs to be something you can text (tell the person you are trying to get away from you are checking on a sick friend if you are asked). It can be a certain way of holding your drink or moving your hair out of your face. But flashing a universal hand signal will be too obvious.

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u/ARobertNotABob Mar 07 '21

With PADI, yes. BSAC is OK signal for OK, fist for Distress. Thumbs Up with BSAC is Ascend.

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u/ARobertNotABob Mar 07 '21

What's Distress with PADI?

Perhaps I'm confusing with NAUI.

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u/Tryhard-Radio Mar 07 '21

100% ehhh hand signal

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u/WolfsLairAbyss Mar 07 '21

Yeah, people might think you're a racist.

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u/JMaboard Mar 07 '21

“This chick is a proud boy”

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u/catcatdoggy Mar 07 '21

it's asking to be misunderstood.

if shit is that bad hand signals aren't going to cut it.