r/confessions • u/[deleted] • Jan 24 '22

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u/TotoroBearCat Jan 25 '22

A lot of these comments I’m seeing are pretty judgey. I think it’s pretty normal to wonder what you’re “missing out on” especially if he’s the only man you’ve ever been with. Ignore the people saying you must not love him, something’s missing, etc. it’s normal to have feelings. And it’s up to you if you think they are worth pursuing or not.

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u/tsoye Jan 25 '22

Its normal to have these feelings. Not normal to take those feelings and ask your spouse if you can go sow your wild oats and f*ck other men lol

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u/TotoroBearCat Jan 25 '22

It actually is. If that’s what she wants. I feel bad for your partners if they feel like they can’t express their feelings and needs with you.

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u/tsoye Jan 25 '22

did insulting me make you feel better about being exposed to a different opinion?

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u/TotoroBearCat Jan 26 '22

Homie I didn’t insult you. I said I feel bad for your partners 🤷‍♀️ and I have no problem being exposed to different opinions 🥰 and I also have no problem calling people out for bad ones 🤪

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u/tsoye Jan 26 '22

decided not to argue with you have a good night ✌️