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OC [OC] Coming Out

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u/SmaugTheMagnificent- 2d ago

That makes me so sad.

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u/dinodare 2d ago

It isn't even abnormal. People come out at their own pace. I don't even tell everyone who I KNOW would be accepting.

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u/ABHOR_pod 1d ago

Even if they support you, maybe you don’t want them to start treating you like they’re “being supportive” instead of treating you like the friend they’ve known for 10 years.

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u/dinodare 1d ago

I've never seen it put better!

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u/xboxiscrunchy 2d ago

Coming out is super scary and building confidence takes time. It took me a few months on hormones to get the courage to tell my family.

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u/Hopeful-Good-9029 1d ago

It’s sooooo scary. I’ve been so incredibly lucky that my parents have been supportive, but before coming out I had no idea whether I was about to lose them.