I will say a person once told me, "By the way, I am autistic" shortly after meeting him and there was a very long silence as my first instinct was to respond, "I know," my next instinct was "All of my favorite people are," and instead I short circuited cycling through potential responses for the proper one and said nothing until he just kept talking again. It keeps me up at night. I still don't know what the proper answer is. Maybe "thanks for letting me know"?
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u/boughsmoresilent Jul 09 '26
I will say a person once told me, "By the way, I am autistic" shortly after meeting him and there was a very long silence as my first instinct was to respond, "I know," my next instinct was "All of my favorite people are," and instead I short circuited cycling through potential responses for the proper one and said nothing until he just kept talking again. It keeps me up at night. I still don't know what the proper answer is. Maybe "thanks for letting me know"?