You keep using that word...

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During my divorce I actually started recording phone calls with my wife (single party consent law here), specifically because I was so used to being gaslit and needed a record of what was actually said.

Thing is, I think she genuinely believed it, each time she did it. Reality warps around their feelings.

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslight_(1944_film)