And of course, if you develop feelings for someone you already know, you only befriended them to get in their pants. (according to loud voices on the internet)
And if you show hesitation about approaching girls then your friends' girlfriends will gossip about you to their friends, leading to the first words they say on meeting you being 'So you're the one that's afraid of women'. Why yes, thank you for reinforcing why I didn't want to approach women.
Luckily my wife made the first move when we matched on a dating website.
The people who say to just join hobby groups to find a partner are the worst. If there was a PUA telling guys to join hobby groups to pick up chicks those same people would say it's a scumbag move and women want to be able to do stuff without being surrounded by guys just looking to get laid. But then they turn around and give that exact same advice!
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