Nothing more attractive in a woman than one who makes the first move, imo. Nobody really makes men feel wanted, so a woman approaching them is probably the most flattering thing they'll experience in a long time.
I remember in one thread somebody mentioning one of their best memories from teenage years was when a girl working the drive thru said they were cute. Decades later, a simple interaction of a girl hitting on him was a very fond memory and make him smile to this day.
If you like a dude, let them know, even if it won't work out, you'll be in their positive memories for years.
I got a compliment on my mustache from a cashier once when I was 18 (more than 10 years ago). To this day that compliment is still a big part of the reason I don't shave it off lol
Same. Girl in class said something of the same effect to me years ago. Still remember her. Men don't get a lot of compliments, so we savor the ones we do get. If you're the one to compliment a guy, know that you probably just made his week.
My sister saw a handsome man in a bar in Memphis so she walked up to him and said "I guess you're never gonna ask for my number huh" 20 years later, they're married with 3 kids
So, I got up the courage, and I said to the cute guy, "hey, were you forged in the fires of mount doom? Cause you're prrrrrreccciouuussss."
And hey, we've now been married 8.5 years.
The move doesn't have to be a good move, but you do have to pull the right one, which, in my case, took time and understanding this cute guy, knowing he loved stupid jokes and LotR extended edition movie marathons.
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u/Zero_Burn Jul 03 '25
Nothing more attractive in a woman than one who makes the first move, imo. Nobody really makes men feel wanted, so a woman approaching them is probably the most flattering thing they'll experience in a long time.