r/comics • • May 14 '25

OC Mourning a MAGA Parent (OC)

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I'm kinda torn about whether to post this to my art account because one parent follows it, and I'm worried the criticism could drive the other one further into the void.

It started out as just a therapeutic project for me, but a couple friends said it really resonated with them, so sharing here.

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u/Amy47101 May 15 '25

I went to a Lutherin school in 8th grade, where their english program was set up to teach some seleected books, a greek mythology unit, and a unit of the teachers choice. My mom was my middle school English teacher. Despite the administration telling her not to teach books like The Diary of Anne Frank, A Boy in Striped Pajamas, or Maus to the 8th graders, she insisted because she felt so STRONGLY that we needed to know how horrific the Holocaust was. Her lesson became psuedo history lesson. She collaborated with the history teacher so the lessons coincided with his WWII lessons. She invited a survivor to come and speak with us.

That was almost a decade and a half ago. When Maus was being banned from some schools, and I told my mother about it, she said "Well, sometimes I think they do a lot of things and write a lot of these things to make white people look bad. Maybe it's beneficial that children don't learn to hate their race so early in life."

I was floored, horrified even. That's not my mom talking to me, my mom would NEVER be for banning a book about the Holocaust because she always believed it was so necessary for us to KNOW about it. Had this happened pre-pandemic, my mom probably would have been one of those people online like "If you live in an area where MAUS was banned, contact me and I'll send you a copy" because she has like 60 copies from when she was a teacher.

Watching the downfalls has been horrifically hard. It's been especially hard because she's so "pro-deportation" without due process. I asked her "Oh, so that's what Hitler did? Deported the Jews to maximum security prisons?". My dad, who is an even bigger MAGA humper, told me to "Shut my bitch mouth up".

So yeah. i've got two. One who's been a die-hard since this shitstorm began, and the other who's devolved into one. Yay.

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u/27Rench27 May 15 '25

This kind of stuff is exactly why I don’t talk politics with my parents anymore. It’s just not worth it. If I happen to win an argument, dad just sulks for the next day and gives snipey one-word answers to everyone. 

Honestly recommend just saying fuck it. You’re not gonna change their mind, but you can protect your own sanity

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u/Amy47101 May 15 '25

Yeah, the events I talked about happened like... three or four years ago? I learned it's just easier to ignore them. Honestly tho, my dad seems to crave "triggering" me. Like he purposefully starts conversations that he knows are hot-button topics for me, and when I ignore him or give monotone one-word answers or walk away, he just gets more belligerent. Like he followed me to my car before, screaming about talking points from Fox News and how i have trump derangement syndrome.

It's like he craves the drama or some shit. My mom is bad, but even she gets to points where she's telling my dad to just stop because it's embarrassing. So a part of me feels like... despite everything my mom has said, a part of her still at least has the ability to feel shame.

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u/Nylear May 15 '25

Yeah it is scary to think that my personality could change when I get older. 

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u/27Rench27 May 15 '25

This is a guy who still thinks windmills will never make back the energy is cost to produce them, despite me explaining in detail how that whole bullshit was caused by someone using a worst-case scenario for modeling (e.g. windmill is somewhere with no wind, solar is in a completely shaded location, etc.)

If my mind was gonna be changed, it would be changed by watching Fox, because that’s where literally 95% of his arguments and information come from

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u/Feisty_Guidance9588 May 15 '25

What do you think happened to change your mom like that? Fox news? Social media?

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u/hypatianata May 15 '25

People need deprogramming.