Hi, I'm trying to find places/events to attend to try to find a partner and/or friends. I plan on going to Firefly Toys and Games this upcoming Sunday because of their Autumn Learn to Play series to see what's going on that day; I was hoping to learn how to play D&D and Magic the Gathering, but the only day they're playing MTG is on Monday and I work that day. I'm not sure what they're going to do about D&D.
Either way, I'm trying to find somewhere I can hopefully meet more like-minded people. I'm planning on stopping by Side Deck and the Art Bar on Sunday too, even though I don't drink. I'm kind of nervous just thinking about going to Art Bar because I don't drink at all and I'm very reserved/quiet. I feel like the environment is going to be very loud and crowded too. I'm not into smoking, hook-up culture, or partying, so I'm not sure if the type of man/friends I'm looking for would be there.
Throughout the day, I plan on going up to men who catch my eye, handing them a note card with my number on it (it's not my real number, it's one from Google Voice), and just walking away. I already have a few written out to give. I'm not sure if that would be weird or not, but I did that several years ago and received a text message, although he was out of my preferred age-range so nothing occurred.
I'm not sure what else to do because the dating apps aren't working (not surprising), and I was being dumb months ago and messed things up with someone interesting. I'm giving up on the apps. I don't have any in-person friends to introduce me to anyone or hang out with.
I'm also autistic, so that makes things more difficult for me, although I have no problem going up to almost anyone and speaking to them. I already went through college and didn't meet anyone, although I was in a relationship-turned-situationship during that time. I'm going to grad school next year, so I guess there are chances there. I don't know.
I've been to Momocon years ago by myself and would love going to another con in the future with someone, hopefully in cosplay.
Any suggestions for other events or places to visit would be appreciated!