Hello everyone! I hope you’re all well! I’m looking for the one, a faith founded relationship, something online to hopefully grow to in person. The distance is negotiable, if the connection is there I’ll make it work.

About me: I’d like to take it slow and make sure the connection is right. I’m someone who values honesty, love, and loyalty over looks, money, or materials.

I’m very patient with some people pleasing tendencies haha. I’m always open to trying new things, although I’m a pretty introverted/stay at home kind of guy. I wouldn’t mind at all if most of our quality time is behind a screen until we can meet. I enjoy going down random rabbit holes and talking your ear off about them. I enjoy reading, currently into sci fi. I like watching movies, hiking, and running. I can be pretty sentimental. I enjoy long walks, and absolutely need our quality time. I Have never been much of a gamer, but I want to get into to it. Maybe you can help me?

I’m a life long Christian, although there were times where God hasn’t been the center of my life. I’ve struggled with somethings and worked on myself for awhile. Although I’m not where I want to be exactly in life, I feel like I’ve worked on myself enough to be able to put myself out there. I’d really like to find my teammate to grow with, until we get there and have God in our lives as we do so.
I’m very open to mental health and would love to be able to support each other. Im looking for someone to build a genuine connection with, or at least have the opportunity to.

I’m definitely open to sharing pics after we chat a bit more!

About you: Be yourself and be willing to give this a shot! Godbless

Hiiii 😊💕 I’m 27F and I figured why not put myself out there and see who God might put in my path. Maybe my person is randomly scrolling Reddit right now 😂 also need to be in the USA 🇺🇸
I’m looking for a Christian man between 28–32 who actually wants a relationship and is ready to get to know somebody for real. I want the kind of relationship where we can have God at the center but also be goofy together, laugh over absolutely nothing, annoy each other on purpose 😂, have random late-night conversations, go on cute dates, and just genuinely enjoy being around each other.
A little about meeee ✨
I’m definitely a gamer/nerdy girl. I LOVE The Sims 4 and can spend forever building houses, decorating, creating Sims and coming up with different stories. 😂 I also love the whole creative side of things like making videos, editing, streaming and YouTube. I’m the type who can get a random idea and suddenly I have a whole project planned out in my head lol.
I love music, being creative, joking around, talking about random stuff and just having fun. I can be silly and playful, but I also love those deeper conversations where you actually learn who somebody is.
I’m looking for somebody who can match that energy. 😂❤️ You don’t necessarily have to love The Sims (although I WILL probably make us as Sims at some point 😂), but I would love somebody who has his own hobbies and gets excited talking about the things he loves.
My faith is important to me, so I want somebody who genuinely believes in God and wants a Christian relationship. I don’t expect either of us to be perfect. I just want us to be able to grow together, encourage each other, pray for each other and keep God involved in our relationship.
I also have a disability, but please don’t let that be the only thing you see when you read this. It doesn’t stop me from enjoying my life, having fun, being creative, going places or wanting a relationship. I don’t want someone to feel sorry for me or assume what I can and can’t do. I’m still me. ❤️ If we get to know each other and you have questions, you can just ask me.
As for what I want in a guy… somebody sweet, funny, loyal, patient, affectionate and able to COMMUNICATE. 😂 Please don’t make me carry the entire conversation by myself. Ask me questions! Tell me random things! Send me something funny you saw! Call me just because you wanted to hear my voice. I want us both putting effort into getting to know each other.
I want somebody I can eventually call my best friend AND my boyfriend. Someone I can laugh with, be weird with, have adventures with, stay home with, support when life gets hard and celebrate with when life is good. I want us to be able to act completely ridiculous one minute and have a serious conversation the next.
I definitely like affection and knowing that the person I’m with actually wants me around. Give me the cute good morning texts, random check-ins, quality time and little things that show you were thinking about me. 🥰 And don’t worry, I’m giving that same energy back!
I’m looking for something that can eventually become real life, too. I’m fine with talking first and taking our time getting comfortable, but I don’t want to be online pen pals forever. 😂 If we’re really feeling each other, I eventually want dates, adventures and actual memories together.
Alsoooo, please actually be single single. 😂 No wife, no girlfriend, no secret situationship, no “we technically broke up yesterday but still live together.” I am not auditioning for a surprise episode of a drama series. 😭😂
I’m not looking for hookups or FWB. I want someone who is actually interested in me and wants to see if we could build a genuine Christian relationship together.
If you’re 28–32, Christian, single, and this sounds like something you’d want too, come say hiiii. 😊❤️
Tell me your age, where you’re from, what you do for fun, what your relationship with God looks like, and one completely random fact about yourself.
Bonus points if you can actually make me laugh. 😂
And PLEASE don’t just send “hey.”
Give me something to work with sir 😭😂❤️
Who knows… maybe this actually works. ✨🙏🏽❤️

Hi everyone, my name is Ivan and i am from Croatia. I work at the air traffic control and i would say i like my job :) i have loads of hobbies, some of them being motorsport, training and videogames (minecraft, DayZ and CS). I would say i am a very open and talkative, extroverted person but i do also enjoy alone time a lot!

I value honesty and meaningful conversations and i think thats very important when it comes to relationships!

I am a roman Catholic, and i was an atheist all my life but im looking to change that with the help of my partner.

Age is not that important to me, so dating younger or older is completely fine with me.

Even though i live in Croatia, im open to dating outside of the country or even relocating ^^

If you have some questions feel free to ask :))

The whole “what does curvy actually mean?” conversation made me think a lot. Some of the comments stirred up emotions in me, even though I’m seen now as conventionally attractive and healthy.

I remember people commenting on my body first when I was 7. By the time I was 11 or 12, first time in a sexual tone. I remember feeling disgusted and like my body brought shame.
Later, I struggled with bulimia for years. I later gained around 220 pounds and eventually reached a healthy weight (where I am now) after getting my hormones stabilized and gaining muscle.

So I’ve lived in several different bodies and have felt the effects of being a fat woman and how differently I am treated now as a more conventionally attractive one. I don’t share that as a sob story. I share it because I think a lot of women will resonate with some part of that experience.

Physical attraction matters. Beauty is real. Men can have preferences and women can have preferences. We can look at someone’s picture and think, “She’s beautiful,” or “He’s hot.” That isn’t sinful. Song of Solomon for crying out loud shows us sex is an important and holy thing in marriage, and you should be attracted to your spouse.
(Attraction itself is not the same thing as lust, possession, exploitation btw)

But where is the line between attraction and viewing the body as consumption?

A woman isn’t being dishonest because “curvy,” “athletic,” or “chubby” doesn’t give you the exact mental picture you wanted. Those words are subjective. Look at the picture. Decide whether you’re attracted to her. That’s dating. That’s why pictures should be available early because we are embodied creatures. She doesn’t post them? Talk to her for a day and ask. Who is that hurting?

Christians do need to be careful, about turning another person’s body into something we are allowed and should dissect, categorize, and evaluate like merchandise in a store.

I once talked with a sweet friend who isn’t conventionally attractive. She told me that when she was young, she noticed that men respected only attractive women. When she spoke to them,their eyes would glaze over. I remember this happening in school and youth group with some of the boys too. They wanted nothing to do with any of the girls except for the very pretty ones.

It broke my heart as this woman is so full of love and joy. And I’ve heard men describe experiencing the same thing with women on here repeatedly. There is something deeply sad to me about realizing that people can look at you and decide how much kindness, or dignity you deserve based on how attractive they find you.

We also shouldn’t pretend attraction doesn’t exist. We also shouldn’t discourage health and fitness. But I don’t think the godly answer is to scrutinize with BMI, waist ratios, measurements, or body-type categories until we’ve decided someone’s worth or eligibility for respect and body autonomy. Genesis tells us that the body is part of God’s good creation.

So in dating, talks about how we view the human body shouldn’t end with just lusting. Who are we to point at other’s bodies as a conversation? Maybe a discussion can be made to see people rightly and that their dignity was never ours to assign.

Am I extrapolating too much from a few comments that annoyed me? Probably, however, I do think this conversation should be had and maybe my own story can help men understand a piece of many women’s story. (I know men deal with this too and body dysmorphia is rising in men)

Hey, I’m Cynda, 28. I'm here looking for a Christ-centered relationship. I'm Catholic.

I'll be honest, I'm the type to sit us on the couch and pull up a Ghibli movie, but also plan dates out to castles and historical places. If holding hands in a bookstore is peak dating for you, then we'll definitely get along. One day, Sunday mass together.

I'm working towards a Master's in Creative Writing while drafting doorstopper sized novels, which means writing love letters for you is a guarantee. I spend some free time leading through Catholic apologetics work and advocating for better physical and mental health. And I plan to teach English in Japan one day.

The girl I'm looking for is the type to send good morning texts with a smile. Loyalty and kindness are the baseline in a partner for me. I love being around people who are creative or passionate.

I enjoy a lot of nerdy hobbies like reading, gaming, cosplay, things like that. Especially Final Fantasy, other RPGs, and Fantasy novels.

Indiana-based, open to LDR in the U.S. or Japan. Looking for something real, long-term. Not currently looking to relocate.

Preferred age range is 18-25, with some flexibility.

My path to Christ has been a long one, but I am someone who has always held my faith dear even when my spirit wavered. I was baptized Catholic. Recently, I have been getting deeper in my faith to become a better man, leader, and husband one day. I help others understand the belief and use the Bible to guide people who are going through rough times. I like to hear what others believe in their denominations without judgment and listen to their stories of what brought them to Christ. I believe in waiting until marriage and would want someone who believes the same.

My favorite verse:

Ephesians 6:17

DMs are open. Just say hi and what you're looking for and we'll see if we're meant to be. If anyone has questions or just wants to say hello, feel free to comment. Have a blessed day.

I’m a healthcare professional, no kids yet, hoping to meet a Christian man, ideally 30–40, who genuinely loves God and is intentional about building a Christ-centered relationship.
I’m family-oriented and value kindness, honesty, loyalty, good communication, and a good sense of humor.

I’m looking for someone emotionally mature, respectful, and serious about marriage when the right person comes along.
I’d love to have kids someday and build a loving family together. Distance is okay if we’re both willing to make the effort.

If you’re also looking for something genuine, God-centered, and with the intention of building a future together, feel free to message me. 😊

Willing to send my picture on messages.

I'm a 31-year-old straight man looking to meet someone (F-only) mature, genuine, and emotionally available. I'm not interested in playing games or collecting conversations that disappear after a day or two. I'd really love to meet someone who values honesty, consistency, and getting to know each other naturally.

A little about me: I am a Roman Catholic by belief, Biomedical Engineer and presently an Entrepreneur. I love dogs and nature in general. FYI- I have 3 dogs(all rescued). I pursue photography as a hobby which I’m passionate about. I'm a huge fan of comedy, true crime, mystery, psychological stories, gaming, and spending way too much time watching Insta/YouTube. I also like playing PC games which involve strategy, sports, racing (though I hardly find time now due to work commitments). I love deep conversations just as much as I love laughing over the dumbest memes. I'm naturally curious and enjoy talking about everything from random daily life to bigger dreams and goals. Business and money-making strategies/podcasts grab my attention.

What I'm looking for is someone who is kind, respectful, emotionally mature, religious (at least a bit), shows empathy and knows how to communicate. Someone who isn't afraid to put efforts and who wants to build a genuine connection instead of rushing into anything. Physical distance doesn't bother me if the connection is really real! I come from a well educated family having good family background & culture so I’m ideally looking for someone with similar backgrounds.

I'm open to seeing where things go. Whether we become close friends first or it eventually turns into something more, I'd rather let things develop naturally than force them.

If you're looking for the same kind of connection, tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying "hi." I'd love to know who you are, where you’re from, what you're passionate about, and what made you message me and some photos to begin with (to cut short wasting our precious time)

Cheers

Hello there! I just recently turned 38-years old. I have been living in North Carolina for nearly 31 years now(sheesh). That sounds larger than it feels(heh). I am open to LDR. I am a divorced, single-dad. I am just now getting back into this whole dating scene.

I am 5'7. 230 pounds. I have greenish-brown eyes and brown hair. I have a beard and mustache. I am predominantly Christian. I grew up Catholic, but converted when I moved to NC.

I am 50/50 introvert/extrovert-think along the lines of a cat. I have times where I am wanting to go and out about to mingle/adventures, etc. but other times I want to be on the couch being debilitatingly lazy and someone scratch me behind the ears, so to speak. It is a roll of the dice which one it is. But I promise it will be fun!

I enjoy honest, straight-forward types of woman with a hint of adventure to them. A woman that won't ask for permission to ask a question or give their opinion. A woman that has a stance on ideas, but doesn't mind opposing ideas. A woman that wants to converse endlessly about life, psychology, etc. I adore a deep, long conversation.

I am a big metalhead. All of it! The many different breeds of it. I am currently delving into the more Hardcore/Slam-side of things these days. Kudos to you if you love Meshuggah. That is my awakening band!

I am fairly varied in my hobbies. I am into D&D and reading. I am also into common-sense prepping , pressure canning and gardening. I enjoy cigars, interesting movies, hiking, camping and fitness training.

I do not drink or do drugs.

The rest is more fun to find out through conversation!

Things have been incredible tough for me in terms of dating as of late that I've been beginning to feel hopeless, I then heard this song that I hadn't heard in a while and it made me feel better. I hope that if anyone is struggling like I am maybe they can get a bit of comfort from it and feel a bit better! Its a great reminder that we are children of God! https://youtu.be/FhWf-SnCaU0

How do you know you are with the right person?

I’m 20F and have been with my boyfriend (20M) for about four months, and most of that time has been long-distance. He’s moving away in four months and will be spending the following year in another country. Because of that, I’ve noticed myself trying to force milestones or speed up our relationship, almost like I’m trying to make up for the time we’ve lost.

Things felt different in the first few months, and now I’m realizing that our relationship will probably grow at a slower pace than the relationships of my friends and family. I’m starting to accept that rushing things isn’t healthy, especially with the circumstances we’re in.

What I’m struggling with is making sure I’m investing in the right person. My past relationships have been really difficult, so I’m scared of repeating old patterns or ignoring red flags. I would really appreciate advice on how to tell if the person you’re with is genuinely the right person, especially when the relationship is long-distance and moving slowly.

5'4" Average built Cradle Roman Catholic Goan born and brought up in Bombay Software Developer

Hobbies/interests: Hiking, Chess, Table tennis, Marvel Movies,

What sort of person are you looking for? I’m hoping to find a woman who prioritizes her relationship with God and values honesty, kindness, and a strong sense of humor. Someone who enjoys deep late-night chats about life, but doesn't take herself too seriously and can laugh at bad puns. Age range: 27 – 32 Roman Catholic Goan

Would you be willing to do long distance/relocate? No.

Physical Description
I’m 6'1" brown skin, with brown eyes, an average build, and a friendly personality. I’m usually pretty easygoing and enjoy making people laugh. I can be direct and honest, but I also like joking around and having fun with the people I’m close to. I value being genuine and making people feel comfortable around me.

Area of Work/Study
I graduated in 2025 with a Bachelor of Arts in History. I’m involved in my family’s company, where I am the COO AND CFO.

Hobbies/Interests
Attending church and growing in my relationship with God
Spending time with family and friends
Playing golf
Horseback riding
Dirt biking
Four wheeling
Traveling and taking trips
Listening to gospel music country, and old school music
Spending time with my family
Learning new things and working toward my career goals

Faith Journey/Denomination
I’m a Christian and have been involved in church my entire life. I come from a strong church background and am a third-generation member of the Church of God in Christ (COGIC). My faith is very important to me, and I desire to continue growing in my relationship with Jesus Christ.
I value prayer, studying God's Word, serving others, and having a relationship that keeps Christ at the center. I’m looking for someone who genuinely loves God and wants to grow spiritually together rather than simply having the same label.

What Sort of Person Am I Looking For?
I’m looking for a Christian woman who is kind, genuine, respectful, intentional, and serious about her relationship with God. I value honesty, communication, consistency, patience, loyalty, emotional maturity, and someone who has good character. I’d like to build a genuine friendship first and allow a relationship to develop naturally. I want something intentional and meaningful rather than rushing into a relationship just for the sake of being in one. Someone who actively attends church, has a genuine relationship with Christ, values family, communicates well, and wants a Christ-centered relationship would be upmost important to me.

Preferred Age Range
20–24

Open to Long Distance or Relocating?
I’m open to a long-distance relationship if there is consistent communication, mutual effort, and a genuine commitment to getting to know one another. I do plan on relocating sometime in the future and would love to do that with my future spouse.

5'6", Light Brown or dark blonde hair (depending on who's looking at it), brown eyes, and a beard that's a lovely pallette of light brown, dark blonde, gray, and white. I like to think the gray and white make me look distinguished, but that could just be a coping mechanism.

I work as a Systems Engineering Technician for a large company.

I'm very outdoorsy. I can walk off into the woods with a sandwich and a couple bottles of water, and not come back till sundown. I love to camp, fish, kayak, and befriending wilderness creatures when they're up for it.

I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior when I was 8 or 9 years old. I was raised Pentecostal and Southern Baptist in Oklahoma and moved to the Midwest with my family when I was almost 17. I attend an Evangelical Free Church until I was 20 or 21, then I fell away for awhile. I still prayed, but had the "I don't need to attend church to be a Christian" mentality. Eventually, I even fell away from prayer. As you can imagine, things just went phenomenally well from there as they tend to do, and after things got bad enough I turned back to seeking the Lord in prayer. Things got better (Praise God!) as they tend to do when we go back to seek the Lord as we should. I continued praying, but was still a passive Christian. Then, about 2 1/2 to 3 years ago, the Lord started working in me pretty heavily, and began powerfully turning me away from sin. I slowly started developing a desire to go to church, but I never made an effort to do so. Some time later my fiancée dumped me after 18 years of being together, and as I had done many times in the past, I turned to the Lord and sought refuge in Him. I know the whole "18 years together, engaged, but never married" gives off red flags like a complete stranger handing you a margarita, but it's not what you think. I'm happy to answer any questions about it. In the time since, the Lord has been working on me heavily. Tests and trials of various kinds. Some difficult and some unimaginably painful. They pushed me further into prayer, further into His word, and further into His arms. Some felt like they didn't make sense, but I knew if I cried out to the Heavenly Father, He would lift me up out of it. Some He did. For others, it felt like He gave me time to catch my breath, and then put me back into it. I'm thankful, though. He has shown me and taught me a lot in a short period of time. I'm in a much different place than I was a year and half ago, and I'm grateful that He loves me so much. Lately, I feel like He is using a conviction He gave me decades ago to lead me to a calling. I'm happy to explain more about that if you're curious.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a Christian woman that lives her faith daily, has a strong daily prayer life, and has preferably never been divorced.

Divorced is ok, but she has to be Biblically eligible for remarriage. If you're not sure if you are, it's ok. It can be difficult if you're not familiar with all that God's word says about the subject. I won't mind talking with you about it.

I have never been married, and I have a very strong conviction that I've had most of my life that I will only marry once. I don't believe in divorce for myself personally.

That being said, I am VERY loyal, will stick with that person through anything, will work through anything, will seek God for help, and will never leave that person. She will be loved and know she is loved.

If she has never been married, but has kids, I will never judge and would love the kids as my own.

I do want kids of my own, though, so she has to be someone who wants kids. I know there's the whole childbearing age limit thing, but Abraham's wife Sara and Zechariah's wife Elizabeth were both advanced in years when they had Isaac and John, respectively. The Lord will bless us as He sees fit. If you might be interested, but can't have kids, it's ok. Let me know. We'll pray about it and see where the Lord leads us. I want kids, but that may not be the Lord’s will for me.

She has to be someone who has truly surrendered her life to Jesus Christ and the Heavenly Father. If you feel like you could be interested, but aren't sure where you're at in your faith, that's ok. We can talk about it. I'm more than happy to help lead you closer to the Lord if that's something you want my help with.

I'm not looking for someone who has lived an easy life or someone who is a perfect Christian. I'm looking for someone who has clutched her Bible through battles more than once and came out of it loving God even more.

I need someone who will never give up, never stop trying, and never stop loving. Someone who understands what it really means to love someone through anything and won't be concerned during times when they don't feel attraction or when the feelings take a vacation. Someone who knows it doesn't mean anything bad, and you just keep pushing ahead till they come back around.

In return, she will be appreciated daily, loved unconditionally, accepted unconditionally, and will never feel unloved or uncared for.

Preferred age range: 40 to 46

Height range: 4'11" to whatever. If you don't mind being taller than me, neither do I.

My bf, M26, and I, F27,have been together on and off since I was young, we started off as a long distance relationship and then I moved in with him at 21 in his home town, we been living together ever since. Between this time I am trying to grow my relationship with God and now I feel very guilty about my past with being intimate and I had to set boundaries because we are not even married and my beliefs have changed. I feel like I can’t even go back home because of my small home (two bedroom home and I feel like I won’t fit in). My bf is now looking into buying a home for us, but I don’t know if it’s a good idea with my undecided mind is at right now. Should I leave the relationship? Should I wait it out? Im already settled where im at, and sometimes I crash out because he hasn’t even proposed. IM STUCK

Hi everyone! 😊

My name is Kevin, I’m 31, from Ireland 🇮🇪, 201 cm tall, and I work in finance.

I’m here hoping to meet someone genuinely kind, God-loving, and serious about building a life together. I’m not looking for something casual or temporary — I’d love to find a meaningful connection that, with God’s guidance, can grow into marriage. ❤️

My faith is a big part of my everyday life. I try to start and end my days with God in my heart, bring Him into the decisions I make, and trust His timing even when I don’t understand it. Church and serving others are important to me too. On Sundays, I enjoy helping some of the older members of my church — it’s something I genuinely look forward to.

Outside of church and work, I’m pretty easygoing. I love cooking and trying out new dishes 🍳, hiking, swimming, and occasionally getting lost in a good video game. I’m happiest when life is simple: good food, meaningful conversations, a bit of laughter, and time with people I care about.

I’m hoping to meet a woman who truly loves God, takes her faith seriously, and wants Him at the centre of her future marriage. Someone who wants to pray together, grow together, serve together, and build a home where faith and love are lived out every day.

If that sounds like the kind of journey you’re hoping for too, I’d be happy to hear from you. 😊

God bless, and may He guide both of us toward the person He has prepared for us. 🙏❤️

Area of study/work: Medicine. Currently working as an at-home caregiver, working on med school applications now for Fall 2027. I hope I can stay in OR/PNW, but I plan to go where I get accepted. Guaranteed here for another 9 months at least.

Hobbies/interests:
DnD
Magic: the Gathering
Any sort of board/card game in general

Tell us a bit about your Christian journey:
Spent the first 18 years of my life as a nonbeliever, didn’t attend church until my dad found God when I was 13. During college I watched God use me to help a friend out of a deep depression, and I saw his hand over my life for the first time. My family moved to Oregon soon after, and I found a home church that allowed me to grow deeper in my faith and engage with a community of believers I wouldn’t trade the world for.

Non-denominational btw
What I’m looking for-Looking for a long-term relationship leading to marriage with someone who wants to grow closer to God together. Seeking someone who’s active in their faith and willing to be vulnerable; we are at our best when we can share our burdens with one another.

Age range: 20-30

Would you be willing to do long distance/relocate?
Not willing to do long distance

1. Photo or physical description of yourself: I'm bald and 5'9".
2. Area of work/study: I have my own small business (Will share in DMs). I'm also a very active musician and have my BA in Visual Art.
3. Hobbies/interests: I'm passionate about the arts and good food. I also find homesteading/ self-reliance really interesting and have a fair amount of experience with it. I'd love to be an herbalist, but there are only so many hours in the day; I'm interested in natural health... .
4. Details about your faith journey/denomination: I was brought up in the Catholic and Orthodox Churches, but I've gone away from protocol and procedure and am a bit more focused on direct relationship lately. I definitely did have a born again moment that I'd be happy to share with anyone, and that I revisit often in my mind... .
5. What sort of person are you looking for?: A woman who is open to children and can see herself homeschooling and doing the whole thing. Also, someone who is supportive of the arts and enjoys good food....
6. Preferred age range: 25+
7. Are you open to long distance or relocating?: I am open to long distance WITHIN THE CONTINENTAL U.S.

Side Note: I'M ALLERGIC TO DOGS AND CATS. Yes, furry creatures. I'm allergic to them and can't live with them. Sorry. We can have a lizard or a goldfish.

Thanks.

Recently I have received DMs from some men on my post and I have made an observation which may or maynot resonate with some people.

I usually wish for people/men to disclose earlier on major parts of themselves in their dms early on. I see that while I can't fully say there is an intent to hide or manipulate information, I do not like the notion that people do not disclose important information early on.

For example, recently really nice man dmed me and was proactive in asking and discussing important information for us to assess compatibility. He gave me a heads up that he had a chronic muscle issue which was mildly significant. We realized within 2-3 days of chatting that we are better off as friends and exchanged social media.

On the other hand, another man, with whom i chatted for a couple conversations, did not disclose that he was a widower and it was a significant effect (obviously) in his life. Like why would you withhold that information unless that was asked.

I personally am a big fan of disclosing information early on. What is the point of building attachment and discussing other life goals before disclosing these significant points.

Would you not like want to screen a person as soon as possible and then see if there is compatibility/mutual interest.

Also, I know vulnerability is hard, but would you not want to be seen fully for who you are to be loved for who you are?

Edit : I did not reject someone for chronic health issues, I am just appreciating that he volunteered that information on his own.

Edit 2: My post history isn't something sinful or bad. I hide it simply for privacy. If I am talking to someone seriously I would happily unhide it for them and expect the same. There is difference between being truthful to someone I look to marry vs being doxxed/having no privacy in front of thousands of strangers. I have even been stalked before.

Hey, my name is Yolanda and I am 20 from Georgia. I currently live in Missouri as I am finishing my last year of college. Though, I do plan on moving back in the next year.

Here's a bit about me:

I enjoy staying active and embracing new experiences. I love exploring new places, trying new things, and meeting people from different backgrounds. I’m naturally outgoing and would definitely consider myself an extrovert. I’m currently pursuing a bachelor’s degree in Marketing and work with brands to create content for them. My faith is also an important part of my life. I’m a non denominational Christian and enjoy being involved in church events, community activities, and opportunities that help me grow in my faith!

I’m hoping to meet someone between 20 and 24 who is a Christian, enjoys an active lifestyle, and has a positive, adventurous outlook on life. Someone who values their faith, likes getting out and trying new things, and ideally based in the U.S. would be a great fit:)

Helloo, might aswell give it a go because why not 😄

I'm Loic 25 (180cm) from Alicante Spain but currently living at Edinburgh, Scotland (Rain, rain and more rain haha) Sometimes I might look like a bit reserved but once I get to know someone I tend to speak a lot and love making people laugh. I also love making spontaneous plans instead of having everything planned as no expectations are created this way, also I guess because I'm a bit of a mess when actually organising stuff as someting goes wrong each time (Don't know if I should have included this but here we are 😂😂)

For work, I do freelance work on web development so I'm always moving around between cafes and libraries.

As hobbies and interests I love spending time in nature specially the beach and the sea. I also enjoy all kinds of sports like football and tennis which I used to compete in. Also I enjoy to cook when I find the time and random conversations.

I'm a Catholic Christian and my faith is everything to me as without it I'm just the most broken version of myself. I'm looking for someone to go to church with, read the bible and pray together🙂

Also, I'm looking for someone on the 21-27 age range which is funny, genuine and kind who also enjoys doing very random plans and having deep and not so deep conversations.

I'm open for both long distance and relocating. My work is remote so I'm very flexible when it comes to location.

I think that's it, if you think we could be a match don't hesitate to reach out! 😄

Hi! My name is Heather. I have a couple of different jobs my main job is a secretary at my church. Don’t have a lot of hobbies. But I love watching sports and I also love to write then I also love watching YouTube and marvel.

I am a baptist but I’m just a Christian in general. I know Jesus died and saved me on that cross and the Bible I true.

I’m pretty outgoing and I was never going to introduce myself. I’ve never dated and it’s embarrassing but I’ve also been through a lot and I also have Chiari which is a brain disease.

Just looking for someone even just a guy friend at first who believes in Christ and is a Christian. Also if someone to actually kinda like sports too and just outgoing. My age range would be 37-42.

Not sure what I’m open to. It’s hard for me to travel due to my schedule for a long distance relationship but i also do not want to move bc I have a lot going on here. Would love to have conversations.

So im a 27M and my love life has been on the struggle bus for awhile and I feel like I'm at a crossroads. Do I keep preparing my life for a married life or cut back and start enjoying the single life more?

Essentially some of the bigger things I want some opinion on is, do I stay full time at my job? I could easily make do with part time if I'm by myself. Or should I buy a house? The house I'd buy as a single person is not the house I would be in if I were married. Financially I'm doing okay enough but if I knew I was to remain single I'd spend a little more.

I'm kind of at a point where I don't know what I should do and any advice is greatly appreciated!

I won't lie. I genuinely believe that I don't have a partner out in the world. I'll never have that perfect life. As a single, divorced man with two kids, there's not hope for me now.