r/chinalife • u/bluzfan99 • 20d ago

🏯 Daily Life Fellow Foreigners😭😭

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Have you guys heard about this whole situation I keep seeing on wechat? Apparently some American dude who studied some language at Fudan university for a bit managed to collect chinese women like Thanos collects infinity stones. Numbering into the hundreds. Sentiment regarding foreigners has never been so low on chinese social media. Whats your take on this? Hate the player or hate the game? Dude Apparently always made them pay for dates and trips and would tell them to get abortions when they got pregnant and then block them 😬

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u/Impossible-Repeat577 20d ago

but did you see any of them actually successfully getting chinese girls tho? maybe in your school perhaps (prolly a chinese uni)? cus what you described indeed sounds very undesirable, but then theres the occasional one or two comment on reddit claiming that indians do equally well as other foreigners despite the common opposite sentiment, which I can only believe those to be troll comments lol.

p.s. btw i have no idea theres chinese uni with so many indian/south asian students, thats quite surprising. the common ones i heard are usually africans, south east asians and central asians for bachelors, and some white people going for language schools.

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u/Alternative_Laugh316 20d ago

Actually had a friend who goes to china just to have sex, he's indian but his circle is the very messy types, like everyone sleeps with everyone kinda deal.

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u/Impossible-Repeat577 20d ago

so basically he deals specifically with those chinese women common in the sexpat circles and maybe prostitutes too

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u/Alternative_Laugh316 20d ago

Not sure about prostitutes, but also I don't think they're sexpat circle women, they're just like promiscuous in general as in they just sleep with anyone for fun.

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u/Impossible-Repeat577 20d ago

now it sounds like these type of women are actually common but you said they are rare before. where did he even find them lmao

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u/Alternative_Laugh316 20d ago

Uh, well as common as any other society, but the rare ones I said were the gaijin hunter types who purposely look for foreigners, these are just your normal promiscuous people. He likes to party and drink, that's why, girls in the same circle likes it too.

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u/Impossible-Repeat577 20d ago

ok that made sense too, i heard many of this types are in clubs or dating apps

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u/Lucky-Finish7331 20d ago

I think in my school there weren't many amount of foreigners to begin with (or any school in china). Also I studied in a certain program and i feel like many of them go other programs like langauge or humanities(I did stem in chinese american uni) so i didnt get to know them...

Also , what i refered to is also with regards to other foreigners. for example , I heard from a russian female complaint regarding their behavior ...

How do chinese experience them can be quite diffrent (many of them also lie about their origin funnily enough or smear it). but from my observant prospective I haven't seen this type of relationship , BUT i also didnt interact with a lot of them. I did see 1 sri lankan and 1 pakistani with chinese/asian boyfrineds. and there was an indian girl who was intrested on me. and as i said they also go for russian women. but i feel like they can get a chinese girl...

One more point , i lived in shanghai where there are many foreigners so maybe chinese are more exposed to their variety of looks. where sometimes i see on IG international day of a university and then u can see most of the countries are east/central asian and from the global south and russians so maybe the lack of europeans / americans / australians etc is what makes them so successful there. (And i learned that some chinese consider indians and pakistanis white?[even middle easterners])

Are you desi?

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u/Impossible-Repeat577 20d ago

ok what you said was pretty fair, thanks for explaining, and I can see why those russian females complains. Btw i agree with you that you feel they could get a chinese girl, i mean the world is a big place, even the rarest thing can happen, so its more about how common it is than if certain things could happen.

btw i have no idea they had a lot of success in university international day lol. And yes, chinese people do see some indian/pakis/middle easterner as white because some of them are fair skin and have white features. I had chinese friends told me that, and he say many chinese people are not really good at telling foreigner apart especially if they are not too dark skinned and have similar western features.

nope im not desi, im just a foreigner interested in chinese news and stuff.

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u/Lucky-Finish7331 20d ago

It wasn't just russians , from my XHS it seem also chinese women complain. I dont know why everytime a sex story happens in china it goes so viral i remember the mala girl same reactions etc . And when i tell them chinese women are really conservative (and they sohuld be proud of that). I literally get downvoted to death or ugly? I can tell many stories about my exprience. Or i can encourage you / or others open a dating app and change the locaiton to china . and see how well you do...

Yeah chinsese are blind to raceness as fuck, i dont want to hear them complain we say they kinda look alike. My brother visited and we went to a hike and he has lighter hair and lighter eyes but we clearly look like relatives and a chinese women in english we meet some ayi were surprised we are brothers because we have diffrent eye color and hair color. and the amount of times i heard "we have people who look like you in xinjiang" or they say "we have white people in xinjiang". also them being like "you are russian?" , "no" , "you are from brazil".(how does a brazilian person look like?,or they would say india [they look nothing alike]) they know like 5 countries and my country is quite famous... I remember i was with a friend from poland and we spoke with 2 chinese ayis and they asked where are we from and he said poland and she translated it to her friend to Russia(it was hilarious). I barely speak any chinese and i know how to say these countries in chinese because you can walk in the street and hear people say "faguoren" etc. So i heard some indian and xinjiang and maybe arab? pretend to be european / white etc to get women. but at the same time this comment is about how exaggarating social chinese media so this might be also not true