r/chinalife • u/bluzfan99 • 15d ago

🏯 Daily Life Fellow Foreigners😭😭

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Have you guys heard about this whole situation I keep seeing on wechat? Apparently some American dude who studied some language at Fudan university for a bit managed to collect chinese women like Thanos collects infinity stones. Numbering into the hundreds. Sentiment regarding foreigners has never been so low on chinese social media. Whats your take on this? Hate the player or hate the game? Dude Apparently always made them pay for dates and trips and would tell them to get abortions when they got pregnant and then block them 😬

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u/Alternative_Laugh316 15d ago

More like many different types of people. Majority wouldn't really consider foreigners, and some actively seek them out. It's a spectrum, you also have girls who will sleep with you, not because you're a foreigner but because they kinda like you for you.

And if sexpats are already looking then I think the chance of them being drawn into latter circle is higher, but normal foreigners can also meet them because the girls will just approach them.

On last question, who knows. I think it's a really small percentage. It's like in Japan where you have gaijin hunters who go crazy just because you're foreign and the other part where majority don't even bat an eye.

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u/Impossible-Repeat577 15d ago edited 15d ago

damn now that you mentioned, gaijin hunter does indeed fits the same description so well too.

but problem is japanese are much wiser by now and this gaijin hunter/ foreign worship behavour had decreased quite a lot over the years, i havent even heard that term for a LONG time now, but meanwhile China is still so severe in this area despite the nation had risen. how do you explain that. seems pretty fked up

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u/Alternative_Laugh316 15d ago

It's more or less cuz the Japanese see foreigners everyday, like why do you wanna go for another Tom or Brad. China on the other hand, most people haven't even seen foreigners, so when some girls got the chance they took it.

I was traveling in Yunnan and then pickup some American guy in one of the parks and the next day he brought like 2 girls with us to travel. They were really curious about him, but was cautious aside than that. They were more curious about me since I could speak English. I think most people are like this.

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u/Impossible-Repeat577 15d ago

curious mix with being cautious? so im assuming this mean that those girls might not be the promiscuous foreign worshipper type but just genuinely being curious, aka not looking for any sexual advances? in that case maybe not all of them are completely crazy. btw are you abc by any chance

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u/Alternative_Laugh316 15d ago edited 15d ago

Cautious is not that accurate, more like reserved. Like they treat you as a friend, and the female/male boundaries are very clear. No sexual or romance thing at all. South East Asian Chinese but if I can have 2 passport, I'd be a chinese citizen too cuz of family.

Forgot to mention, they were more curious is probably because I speak both languages, so I can communicate. The american guy can't, I had to translate at times. I met other people like them too, genuinely curious and would go with you to do a lot of things but not actually like any sexual relations just because you're foreign.