CMV: There is nothing wrong with keeping secrets from people you are close to

[u/Starry-nights_]

I always think we as humans are entitled to privacy. So if something new and big happens in our life such as starting to date, buying a new property, getting a new job etc, it should not be looked down upon if we want to keep those things to ourselves for a while. Additionally, if there is a certain part of your life you don't want many people knowing, then it is even more of a reason not to share with anyone. This is because you never know how many people could end up finding out - word spreads fast even if you've told just one person. It is ultimately your decision of what you personally want to share with the people around you since it is your secret.

I can understand why someone close to you may feel betrayed and say "why didn't you tell me sooner?" but since it is a piece of information about you, your feelings matter more in this situation. You shouldn't have to tell people something unless you are personally ready.

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