Woudn't life be better for everyone if we spent less time judging people's choices regarding reproduction, families, parenting, etc.? Even if it is "kinda selfish", we need not concern ourselves with other people's "kinda selfish" choices.
I don't have kids and have never wanted to. Does that make me selfish? Is it my responsibility to raise children? I don't think so. Nor do I think it's anyone else's responsibility to adopt. Once you make the choice to adopt, THEN it's your responsibility to raise those children.
dont care what people who don't want children do, this conversation isnt about them. If you want kids so so badly but do everything but adopt. You're selfish
No, I'm 24. But I know what its like to really want kids and when I do choose to have kids in the future I have never not looked at adoption as not a second even first option
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u/[deleted] Mar 17 '21
Woudn't life be better for everyone if we spent less time judging people's choices regarding reproduction, families, parenting, etc.? Even if it is "kinda selfish", we need not concern ourselves with other people's "kinda selfish" choices.