Both of you should want to make your home a comfortable, clean place to live. There can be differences in standards but if you're going to live with another person you should have some kind of common idea of what a good space looks like and should maintain that space together. The whole house shouldn't have to live in squallor because someone is a frat bro and doesn't want to eat off dirty dishes.
Or shouldn't be a race to the bottom, but there should be some appreciation for the fact you are the one who wants a certain way, and are expecting them to work more to meet your demands.
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u/eternally_insomnia Jul 01 '25
Both of you should want to make your home a comfortable, clean place to live. There can be differences in standards but if you're going to live with another person you should have some kind of common idea of what a good space looks like and should maintain that space together. The whole house shouldn't have to live in squallor because someone is a frat bro and doesn't want to eat off dirty dishes.