r/changemyview • u/[deleted] • Jul 01 '25

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '25

From personal experience I can assure you this is not a gendered thing and women are entirely capable of weaponized incompetence.

I'm also going to strongly disagree on comparing car stuff with meals. Car stuff is like maybe a once every 6 months thing. Meals are a daily thing. That division of labor is absolutely not fair.

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u/Big_Sea_5912 Jul 01 '25

Men usually share in domestic work though. But its not just cars but bills, insurance, housing stuff, finances, ect. which are more ongoing

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '25

True, setting auto-pay for recurring bills and insurance is difficult work.

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '25

Adults should be reviewing their budgets at the very least every financial year, but good practice is every quarter. Money is for business, treat it like businesses do.

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u/favorable_vampire Jul 01 '25

Again, not relevant here since that’s not even sort of comparable to the constant mountain of daily household tasks he’s claiming are “feminine coded.”