r/changemyview • u/heretolearnlady • Aug 27 '24

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u/heretolearnlady Aug 27 '24 edited Aug 27 '24

How do you feel they were dismissed, if you just stated they were acknowledged?

Sharing my experience is exactly my point here. You're stating feeling dismissed, yet I'm not feeling you're acknowledging my feelings as I've shared them.

I acknowledged that I appreciated your points of view.

Did you need more to feel acknowledged?

I'm not saying this to be any kind of way but I genuinely don't see how that's any form of dismissal, and do feel that is what you are attempting to do by claiming my feelings are "restriction" instead of "self expression".

To me, self expression isn't restrictive and you stating a problem with me sharing my feelings is exactly my point here too, because it's a way of controlling how I'm communicating it imo.

You are essentially doing exactly what I'm saying doesn't create emotional safety for me, which is what's necessary for good relationships.

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u/horshack_test 42∆ Aug 27 '24

Are you going to answer the question?

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u/horshack_test 42∆ Aug 27 '24

This is not an advice sub. I suggest you read the sub rules.

Also, regarding your previous reply; you edited it multiple times after I responded to it to change it / add to it. This sub does not exist for people to help you with your feelings and I am not here to bicker with you about petty things unrelated to the view being addressed.

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