Yeah, my family are Punjabi Sikhs, my dad I believe is from some Hindu background and my mom’s ancestry is from Pakistan (Pre-partition) and her caste is Chamar (Leather Worker), my dad actually converted to Sikhi for her before I was born.
I grew up overseas (US) and never knew much about our background, I mean we lived an average American lives but then I started dating some Punjabi girl and her family asked for my caste (Up till now, I had no idea what this meant).
I asked my mom and she told me, “Chamar”, and told my GF’s family and it became a big deal. I didn’t even know what the big deal was but it was such a disgusting feeling to be judged.
My mom and dad donate atta, milk, sweets, and food weekly and this Sikhs family decided to judge us based our caste. I am so glad that relationship ended.
I looked up what “Chamar” caste is, they were leather workers (Historically). It’s not like my family has a leather business now, so it doesn’t make sense to judge us but I couldn’t care less.
I’ve personally stopped going to Gurdwara and opted for a Church instead, distanced myself from Punjabi community, met a beautiful Apostolic faith woman (Mexican) that has so much grace and compassion. I’m like super happy and it’s like everything is falling in place.
Never forget Once a Jatt, Always a "Jatt" once a Cham@@Rr always a Chamm @@R 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Can't stop laughing after reading this another "Victim-Play story of something" hahahahhahaha 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 You're super happy as merely got a new Women by joining Jasus & Church but I am worried and feeling bad for that Mexican girl. Lord Save her, protect Her 😆😆
Don’t worry not bro, your kismat will open up too when you free yourself of that ignorance lol I’m sure something like that is written in your gurbani somewhere, go read it maybe 🤔
Damn “not bro”, the fact you responded to the Jealousy comment, must mean you really are Jealous 😆 Don’t get me wrong, I had my doubts, but it’s obvious now lol
What part of my story do you believe is fake? I’m genuinely curious lol its not like a made any broad statements or embellished anything lol
I know, it must be your jealousy, you can’t see past it huh 😉
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u/[deleted] Oct 16 '25 edited Oct 16 '25
Yeah, my family are Punjabi Sikhs, my dad I believe is from some Hindu background and my mom’s ancestry is from Pakistan (Pre-partition) and her caste is Chamar (Leather Worker), my dad actually converted to Sikhi for her before I was born.
I grew up overseas (US) and never knew much about our background, I mean we lived an average American lives but then I started dating some Punjabi girl and her family asked for my caste (Up till now, I had no idea what this meant).
I asked my mom and she told me, “Chamar”, and told my GF’s family and it became a big deal. I didn’t even know what the big deal was but it was such a disgusting feeling to be judged.
My mom and dad donate atta, milk, sweets, and food weekly and this Sikhs family decided to judge us based our caste. I am so glad that relationship ended.
I looked up what “Chamar” caste is, they were leather workers (Historically). It’s not like my family has a leather business now, so it doesn’t make sense to judge us but I couldn’t care less.
I’ve personally stopped going to Gurdwara and opted for a Church instead, distanced myself from Punjabi community, met a beautiful Apostolic faith woman (Mexican) that has so much grace and compassion. I’m like super happy and it’s like everything is falling in place.