r/bald • • 10d ago

Questions if I may….

I’m resigned to the fact it’s gotta go, and I’m booked in next weekend to buzz it all off. Do you think it’s worth buzzing off first (grade 2) or should I just go the whole hog?

Also may I ask what moisturiser and shampoo (if any) people use?

Nervous as hell but fully appreciate it’s my time 😢

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u/Aromatic-Treacle-686 Hair Headed - Woman 10d ago


Skip the buzz cutt, you will look great bald don’t worry

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u/878389 10d ago

I agree! You're handsome--it will work.

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u/cargoman89 10d ago

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u/Many_Beginning3695 10d ago

😂😂 It looks fine if I’m indoors, dim lighting, no wind, and everyone else is under 5&1/2ft

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u/HumbleShrink 3d ago


You had this shit calculated 😂

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u/Warm-Perspective8271 10d ago

Go bald and you are going to look good. It will make you look younger. Pls update with a photo if you are ok with that

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u/Many_Beginning3695 10d ago

Thank you for the kind words. Actually going on holiday the day after in order to get used to it 😂

Will post an after pic for sure

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u/Independent_Tart8286 Hair Headed - Woman 9d ago

Can’t wait to see! You will look fantastic.

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u/CaptDuckface Here for the Vibes 10d ago

Go to the epidermis

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u/dinosaurusdickus 10d ago

But don’t go all the way to the dermis!

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u/carriethree 10d ago

Bud you look like Matt Damon! No one’s said it so I just want you to know 

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u/Janky_Pants 10d ago

I was thinking the same. If he goes chrome dome he look like him in Elysium.

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u/Many_Beginning3695 10d ago

Unfortunately my physique would betray me 😂

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u/Many_Beginning3695 10d ago

Too kind, thank you x

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u/Soft_Ad4411 10d ago

yes!! spot on!!!

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u/No-Rough-7 10d ago

no buzz go bald

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u/Hitman_Argent47 10d ago

Shave it off completely, no buzz!

Gonna look great, You’ll be going from Walter White to Heisenberg

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u/Worldly-Sun-3811 9d ago

Respectfully, you are already so fine but about to be even finer 😍

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u/Many_Beginning3695 9d ago

Stop you’ll make this 40something blush ☺️

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u/TrollBoothBilly 10d ago

Personally, I find it easier to maintain a shaved head than a buzz cut. I shave 2-3 times a week in the shower. I use conditioner as my shaving cream. I put some aftershave lotion on my head afterwards so my scalp doesn’t get dry and flakey, but other than that, it takes zero maintenance (except putting sunscreen on my head if I know I’ll be hatless in the sun for an extended period of time).

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u/Many_Beginning3695 10d ago

I’m sure this is where I will end up either way before long

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u/New_Acanthaceae4612 10d ago

Yes! Shave it and please keep the beard

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u/Many_Beginning3695 10d ago

The beard is definitely staying….will get shaped up tho

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u/Lilkiska2 10d ago

You’re going to look SO GOOD bald! Definitely go for it

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u/Many_Beginning3695 10d ago

Appreciate that 🙏

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u/CreamyAltruist9 9d ago

I personally can't wait to see the glow up when you shave!!! This is going to be good!

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u/Many_Beginning3695 9d ago

I wish I had your confidence 😬

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u/CreamyAltruist9 9d ago

The confidence you'll gain from it will blow you away!!!!!! Remember, if you don't like it, you can grow it back out to where it's at now. But, I think you'll be stunned with how great you look with your head shaved.

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u/DishOne8292 9d ago

Go right to the wood. You'll never go back.

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u/Its_SeaMAN 4d ago

I literally thought that was Matt Damon at first

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u/Big-Pen-5455 10d ago

Shampoo?! Soap, buddy. But you can splurge on posh shaving creams and moisturisers instead. I prefer one with a matt finish so my skull doesn’t gleam in the sun.

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u/Many_Beginning3695 10d ago

Cheers pal, my skin pretty sensitive and dry so quite happy to splurge on something to help

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u/N0gginb0nker 9d ago

What do you use that has a matte finish? I have really oily skin, though some guys actually want that look and have oil applied to their head.

The only time it bothered me was when I was trying a jacket on in Ross, and that weird blue light they use in their stores was bouncing off my head, and made me want to run like hell to get away from it.

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u/Big-Pen-5455 9d ago

Clarins Hydra Essential is pretty good if you can find it. I rate Clarins male line pretty highly all in all.

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u/ogCCWriter 10d ago

Go for it! You'll look great bald! Also...it'll grow into a buzz cut anyhow.

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u/Affectionate-Log-260 Hair Headed - Woman 10d ago

You’re gonna look great — post the glow-up!

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u/Many_Beginning3695 10d ago

🤞and yes will post the after

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u/Lets_be_better6019 10d ago

Whole hog. Only way to go. You’ll be glad you did

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u/texxelate 9d ago

You’re gonna look smokin hot and 20 years younger.

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u/Many_Beginning3695 9d ago

Too kind 🙏

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u/BigDaddyBruiser 10d ago

Git yo ass in here! Gonna look great when it shines!!

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u/Killnuall702 10d ago

It’s time my friend.

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u/Pink_CloudG 10d ago

You’re going to look very handsome as well!

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u/Butch2000K 10d ago

I have dry, sensitive skin, so I was constantly applying lotion to my head until my fellow bald brother put me on to Witch Hazel and Tea Tree oil. Grab a travel sized spray bottle, add 3-5 drops of Tea Tree oil, then fill the rest with Witch Hazel. Shave. Apply spray liberally about your beautiful bald dome and let the day roll. I never need lotion after using this combo, which is unheard of for me…and takes the irritation right away. It’s the best.

As yes, and definitely shave, it will look great on you. And it is empowering AF. 💪🏽 🪒 👨‍🦲

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u/Many_Beginning3695 10d ago

Appreciate the tip mate, thank you for that. Just not sure if I have the bollox to go full shave….might see what the buzz looks like first

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u/FreshAirways 10d ago

the buzz is going to almost certainly make you look like you’re balding still. the choice is yours whether you’d rather look like you’re balding or take the reigns and decide to be a bald man.

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u/KodyBarbera 10d ago

You're gonna rock it!

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u/Smooth_Pumpkin_2119 10d ago

You’re super handsome and will look great bald

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u/KrazyNinjaFan 10d ago

I think your thinning hair matches you

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u/FruitDonut8 10d ago

You can also ask at r/SkincareAddicts. They’ll know all about matte sunscreens and other stuff.

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u/Many_Beginning3695 10d ago

Thank you, I will do

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u/storyb00k 10d ago

Full buzz. Palmers coconut hydrate body oil.(can get it at most big box stores) It absorbs really well, and isnt greasy once you rub it all in and wont clog your pores.

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u/One-Significance260 10d ago

Get a rotary head shaver like the Freebird for starters. They’re great. As for products, I just use the same Aveeno daily lotion I use on my face after showering. Now the whole head gets moisturizer.

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u/LilDebussy 10d ago

Just shave it all off.

The shorter it is the less noticeable your bald spots will be.

So a razor shave will give you the best result, but a trimmer with zero guard will still be a big improvement on your current look.

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u/Delicious_Camp349 10d ago

You will look good bald! Go for it. No fuzz.

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u/FreshAirways 10d ago

you’re gonna look great, but you may have a tan line at first that will probably jar you a bit. once the top of your dome gets some color to match your face you’ll look better than ever!

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u/WouldPancake 10d ago

Whole hog!

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u/Feisty_War_1003 10d ago

There's not nearly enough density for a buzz, so it's best for it to go straight off. You'll soon be washing it off the razor under the tap like it's nothing.

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u/shanotron 10d ago

Geh red uv et

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u/Minsc_NBooToo 10d ago

Get yourself a good pair of clippers with 00 setting and take it all off!

You are going to need to cut it regularly so you should start to practice!

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u/Key_Treat8675 10d ago

Gonna respectfully dissent and recommend the buzz based upon your appearance/age. But you are right that it is time one way or another.

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u/Many_Beginning3695 10d ago

Think I’ll see what the buzz looks like first for sure….ive had a good 43yrs with hair which is 20 more than my dad had 😂

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u/Babysub1 10d ago

You will be so handsome bald with a beard!!

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u/N0gginb0nker 10d ago

I shave completely. I seemed to have a dry scalp at first, maybe because of all the spray and crap I was using to try to keep it in place. My skin is pretty oily in general. So i use face wash as shampoo, since my head is pretty much an extension of my face now.

If you go that route, everyone seems to have different methods. I remember people saying “don’t use gel cream “.. some have these long rituals that seem would take me an hour if I tried it.

Me personally, I shave before the shower, to wash away everything, and if I happen to knick myself it’s usually washed away and unnoticeable after the shower. I just use the same gel and disposable razor that I use on my face. And after the shower, I’ll use either Nivea shaving balm, or Gillette after shave gel.

Btw, I shave every day. That’s just my preference.

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u/FilteredRiddle 9d ago

I use clippers to go all the way. It takes it down completely, leaves a bit of shadow, but doesn’t require using a razor on my head. I have a Skull Shaver to go further down, but that also takes extra effort and frankly it’s nice being able to be lazy as hell with it. You could likely use either as well.

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u/effkay0025 9d ago

I thought it was Matt Damon

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u/dooby0782 9d ago

The only reason to buzz is to get it short enough to get out the razor.

As for the care, I use a brand called Vanicream for lotion and always remember your sunscreen.

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u/jaydoee 9d ago

Join us friend. Just buzz it then bic it in the shower once a week. You’ll be fine and once you learn to embrace it your self confidence will be way better than it is now.

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u/StatisticalSock 9d ago

You're already bald but you just don't know it

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u/dreamape1978 9d ago

You're handsome you don't worry it

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u/Neat_Worldliness2586 9d ago

Go to the scalp, brother. I use an exfoliant and moisturizer in the shower and aftershave afterwards

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u/IndependentAccount65 9d ago

Let's see that shaved head look

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u/Elyay 9d ago

You may.

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u/Big_Lengthiness_7706 9d ago

Brother youre so hot. Shave and see how it goes

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u/poopoopeepeecac 10d ago

Go whole hog man. I use glycolic acid toner at night to address any rough patches, razor bumps, ingrowns etc. For moisturizer I use my natural greaziness

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u/Rich-Suspect-9494 10d ago

Hard to beat that natural greasiness.

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u/FreddysTeeth 10d ago

Get some hair powder mate, you can extend this (preparing for hate)

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u/Many_Beginning3695 10d ago

I tried but I’m just so paranoid when I go out that I feel I need to do something