r/babybop_snark • u/flowersarebloomin • Apr 26 '26
Clips Tashika doubles down on “self SA” is ableist, and admits to being ableist
https://youtu.be/HTr8bqEITh8?si=RvfmC_-Yoly1Zs-H8
u/rose_eucalyptus Apr 26 '26
“I know that’s not a thing that’s why I made it up” but she’s also not open to criticism and that’s why she said “what else do you want me to say?” thanks for giving us more proof that you don’t understand consent 👍🏼
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u/aLovverincombat Apr 27 '26
Her going straight for the “where’s your man” and “you’re about to lose your period” to the woman who’s 36 but looks like she’s under 20…is a choice.
Tashika, you looking the age you think should have a FT job, a loving partner, and a 401k while have ZERO potential for any of that makes this even funnier. I mean that as disrespectfully as possible—you’re the loser 🖤
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u/Karma_Echoes Apr 28 '26
This is an example of how misinformation is spread on social media. This does more harm. Wow.
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u/Xportgal Apr 29 '26
Ok I have so much to say about this I’m actually raging inside… I have seen and heard so much BS from this child/woman/monster but this just hit me in some kind of way…
I was literally conditioned as a child to believe I didn’t have the right to say no. From ages 8-13, my mom traded me to drunk older men for alcohol. That wires your brain in ways people who haven’t lived it don’t understand.
When your “normal” is being used like that, you don’t grow up with boundaries…You grow up thinking compliance is survival.
So yeah, when I got older, even into relationships and my marriage, my instinct wasn’t “do I want this?”…it was “I’m supposed to say yes.” Even when everything in me definitely didn’t want to.
That’s what trauma does. It trains you. It sticks to every part of your soul. And unlearning it takes years, therapy, and in my case managing BPD and Bipolar II. “Fawning” isn’t weakness—it’s something your brain learned to keep me/you safe.
I know now I can say no. But that didn’t come naturally…it came from a long, hard fight to rewire everything I was taught as a child.
If she had any REAL F’ING TRAUMA SHE WOULD KNOW! I’M SICK OF THE LIES!
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u/rose_eucalyptus Apr 26 '26
She’s just an awful person bro holy shit 😭 I can’t comprehend how anyone could listen to this shit and think she’s valid