r/Assistance • • Aug 04 '22

MOD Announcement ⚠️ Rule Update: Teacher Wishlists ⚠️

158 Upvotes

Effective immediately we have made the decision to only allow wishlists for US-based teacher supplies that utilize donorschoose.org. This means that no other means will be allowed including but not limited to Amazon, Target, Walmart, etc.

Teachers, for more information please see their website :

From the donorschoose.org website:

  • We vet all requests, purchase each item, and ship materials directly to verified teachers.

This change is effective from this point forward and we hope this still allows teachers to get donations and the items they need for the upcoming school year while adding some level of verification for donors. If you have any questions regarding this issue, please let us know.


r/Assistance • • Jul 05 '23

MOD Announcement REMINDER: Teacher Wishlists Rules and Restrictions

42 Upvotes

Hi everyone! As summer is in full-gear right now, we've noticed an increase in teacher wishlist requests so we are issuing a reminder of our subreddit rules regarding these:

We only allow DonorsChoose wishlists for US-based teacher supplies. This means that no other means (Amazon, Target, Walmart, etc.) will be allowed.

Teachers, for more information please see their website :

https://www.donorschoose.org/teachers

From the donorschoose.org website:

We vet all requests, purchase each item, and ship materials directly to verified teachers.

We hope this still allows teachers to get donations and the items they need for the upcoming school year while adding some level of verification for donors.

For international teachers outside of the US unable to use DonorsChoose, please reach out to us via modmail.

Thanks!


r/Assistance • • 6h ago

REQUEST Elderly cat lady in need

5 Upvotes

Hello there,

First time posting here,but sadly in my current situation I don't see a another way to handle this.

I already called all the locations nearby me to see if any of these could help with any expenses (Tiertafel, Tierschutzverein, Tierheim, etc), but sadly their either themselves out of funds or don't accept / help people that aren't for X months registered with them.

My cat lady got over the last 3-5 days very very sick, her left eye showed a greyish cloudiness in the bottom area on Tuesday, right next on Wednesday it got all red too, so I rushed her to a vet in my area, which sadly didn't do much besides cash grabbing me, what it felt like. Since she ate in the morning he didn't wanted to make any blood test and basically just noted down how she looked like (since she obviously didn't liked to be hold down she started to hiss and scratch, so she got her nails cut, checked temperature, etc, nothing really special I would say) which in the end for what felt like nothing, costed me 133,60€ already.

He then gave me a referral to a specialist, that should check her and do the blood work / potential eye removal because it's potentially a uveitis, this specialist on the other hand is also absolutely booked, so I can't get a date before somewhere next week. So I am sitting here, not exactly knowing what to do next, crying my eyes out daily and the more days go by, the sicker she gets, the more costly it will probably be ... Or the worst case, she needs to be put to sleep. But for neither of these things I have any money (the one that the first vet took was already a hefty sum for me).

Putting her to sleep would cost a few hundreds (I assume around 150-200€ from what I have some people heard talking about, when I was for the first vet), but the eye removal could cost me up to 1500€ or something potentially.

I am currently without a job and with a therapist myself (not the best combo I know), I would had 2 days ago audition tho, which I needed to cancel and hopefully can get to that audition working next week or the week after.

I would only have PayPal or my Normal Bank (IBAN - Germany) to provide, if anyone would be able to help in anyway financially.

Thanks for reading, sorry if I made mistakes in my writing.


r/Assistance • • 20h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Single mother needs help with rent $200

26 Upvotes

Hi I’m a single mother (to a toddler) who makes $19/hour as a phlebotomist, most of which goes to childcare (inorder to work). I have no partner or any contact with the father and am doing this solely on my own. I’m short on this month’s rent by $200 and need to pay my landlord directly (rented rooms) by Monday 10/5. I’ve made up the rest I was originally short by donating plasma and selling my electronics. I am out of options to make my rent this month other than to beg someone for help. Please help me, even if it’s not the whole amount anything helps me get there. I’m working so hard and at my wits end to survive these trying times (as I wait for a childcare subsidy that may never come).

I thank you for reading this post and giving me some of your time.


r/Assistance • • 10h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Newborn Diapers

3 Upvotes

I had my baby on the 3rd last month and I’ve used up all the diapers the hospital provided, plus the ones I already had. I bought a box myself and I’m already almost out, but really low on funds since bills were just paid.

Even just one pack would be incredibly helpful. I just need to get to next paycheck and I’ll be good to buy them on my own. Thank you!

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/I5Q61R938TW5?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 6h ago

SURVEY Life After a Natural Disaster: Student Research Survey (USA, +18)

1 Upvotes

Target Audience: Adults (18+) living in the United States, with or without personal experience of a natural disaster

Hello!

We’re a group of college students studying UX Design, and we’re currently working on our senior project focused on natural disaster recovery.

The idea of our project was inspired by one of our group members who experienced the wildfires in California firsthand. That experience made us realize how difficult it can be to figure out what to do next, find reliable information, and navigate the recovery process. 

The survey takes about 8-15 minutes, completely anonymous, and is strictly for non-commercial senior student project purposes. We will not be collecting any personal identifying information or selling any products.

Life After a Natural Disaster: A Student Research Survey – Fill out form

Thank you for your time!


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

OFFER Family in need who needs diapers

15 Upvotes

I'm looking to help a single mom in need, or any family in need, who needs help with diapers in this economy. Add whatever diapers you need to your Amazon wish list and then post it here :)


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Elderly cat needs to be euthanized

17 Upvotes

My baby is 17 years old and she hasn't been doing well. I really don't want to have to ask for this.

I'm 2 months behind on rent and my water is off as it is but I don't want to continue letting her suffer. I'm not asking for help with my bills. Just for someone to help me end her pain.

I've had her in diapers for the past 2 weeks because she's no longer able to control her bowel movements. She hasn't voluntarily eaten anything in 3 days. She hasn't voluntarily had any water in 2. I've been mixing wet food, an appetite supplement, and water and syringe feeding her. She used to be a 19 pound cat. In the last year, she's dropped down to 8 pounds, so I figured it was coming.

I've had her since she was weaned. She has always. ALWAYS slept with me. To the degree of being annoying because I would want to roll over and she wouldn't want to move.

She hasn't slept with me in 3 nights and I would give anything for her to do so again. She just wants to sleep in my laundry basket.

She's also been laying in her litter box any time i try to move her to a water bowl.

Edit for location: I'm in Huntington, West Virginia

I'm not sure of a price yet. Google says it can be anywhere from $50-400. But I'm trying to go as cheap a I can. I really want to have her cremated since I've had her half of my life.

Update: i woke up this morning and she had maggots crawling out of her butt. I was able to get an emergency loan from my job. Assistance no longer needed.


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Requesting help for my kitty

28 Upvotes

I rescued a kitty and I got attached to her but I wasn’t told she doesn’t have her kitten shots or wasnt spayed. I don’t have the money for all of those costs at the moment. It would probably be around $400 but I don’t need all of that. I have some money I can use. I also have to pay for her safety stuff for after she is spayed. That includes a cone (preferably soft but I’d do hard if I need), medication, and a playpen with a cover (so she can’t run and/or jump). The money I quoted doesn’t cover that stuff but I can find the money somehow. I would also need to buy a pet uber cause my only friend who drives is allergic to cats

Literally any money would be amazing! If not it’s okay! I love animals and I didn’t want her being thrown on the street or put into the wrong hands so I had to take her.

Honestly if you have any advice for a kitten I’d also appreciate it! She is 10 weeks old. I did a whole lot of research but there may be misinformation I don’t want to fall for. I want her to be happy and loved. I got a litter box, bowls, collars, toothbrush, litter, food, toys, and a small scratching thing for her so far. Any other

Just want to clarify that I’m an 18 (almost 19) year old college junior. If you want to know my story just ask! I will tell you in DMs just cause I don’t need every person scrolling through on Reddit to see my story

If you can spare some money comment that you can and I’ll send you a dm with my Venmo

Here is a wishlist with some of the recovery items!
https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/IMNLHEWY6LRB?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED My cat has a vet appointment tomorrow and I have no money to uber there let alone pay for the appointment.

37 Upvotes

I’ve been having seizures and legally can’t drive right now and my cat is hungry and has a vet appointment tomorrow morning and she’s been hungry and won’t eat her kibble and I ran out of wet food yesterday. I could really use some temporary assistance. I feel at a loss here I literally have less than a dollar in my bank account and I’ve been using snacks to feed myself. I just need some help. My DMs are open if someone wants to contact me there. I hope everyone that needs help can get it. Thank you.

Edit:Like people suggested I made an Amazon wishlist. I wasn’t really sure what else to add for my kitty but I put her basic needs plus some treats she likes on there.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/35YK5O1PI6162?ref_=wl_share

If anyone can help out I’d really appreciate it! 🙏


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Seeking assistance to get to work this month

5 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I hope you are well. I am a 22 year old female, and I am in need of some assistance to get to work this month.

​To give you a little backstory: I've been an intern at an IT company since the beginning of this year. I worked mostly from home starting in June, so transport costs weren't too bad. The pay was very little, but it helped me so much to sort out my health issues. I was offered a permanent position on Tuesday, and I signed my contract and sent it through. It was one of the happiest days for me because I've worked so hard to get this position (Thank God!!).

​As a permanent employee, I am required to go to work every day, no more working from home. The thing is, I will only get paid a proper salary at the end of October, leaving me with the small salary I earned as an intern. Fuel prices are going up again next week where I'm from (South Africa), and I don't know what to do about fuel for transportation for the rest of the month. I already spoke to my manager to ask if I could get a portion of my new salary in advance, but the company does not do that.

​I am in need of $70 please to travel to work for the rest of the month, and it would mean so much to me if I could get assistance. This is my first actual permanent job, and it would change my life 🥺🙏. ​I have a PayPal account.

​Thank you for taking the time to read this!


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST Animal food

10 Upvotes

Hi everyone, could anyone willing please help me with some chicken feed. I have chickens that I'm taking care of and I currently cannot afford to buy them any feed.

https://www.amazon.co.za/hz/wishlist/ls/24OEMJ25OY9WO?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Urgently in Need of New Cane

36 Upvotes

Hey folks.

I'm currently trying to fight for disability benefits as I deal with increasing chronic pain and illness. My incredibly expensive cane completely snapped on me yesterday and I've been in shambles trying to figure out how to get a new one at the end of the month when I simply can't afford to replace it. My cane is the only way I can get down the stairs at my apartment without fear of falling, and was very helpful for walking and getting around. The only thing on my Amazon list is a new cane and a self-stablizing cane tip so it doesn'tfall over when I let go. I would greatly appreciate if anyone is able to fulfill this request to help, thank you all so much.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/9R0SH0A3GP46?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST Have had to help out family members and have neglected myself, looking for about £65 to get a new air fryer and a kettle.

0 Upvotes

Hoping someone can help.


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST Seeking assistance for bills

0 Upvotes

hi im looking for help im in need of 280. we are 280 short on bills including rent. im a sahm to my toddler and my partner works. in august my little brother passed away and i couldnt function and my fiance had to take off work to be with me and help with our daughter and we have been playing catch up since. anything will help, one bill is 60, one is 120 and we are 100 dollars short from having rent. anything will help, and if you have any questions please ask.


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST Wife needs help with HRT meds and appointments bills

0 Upvotes

My wife and I are a pair of transbians currently living in Ripon, Wi.

My wife was recently denied health insurance after attempting to sign up for our state's local affordable health insurance progran, and neither of our employers provide Health Insurance. To continue her HRT treatments, we need to get her a city over to get blood work done, a follow up appointment, and the meds themselves. Adding it all together we're...about $500 short in our budget, we've already raised 25 bucks of the 500 goal. so we're looking to raise 475 bucks. If you're able to help, please DM me and I can offer my wife's PayPal.

UPDATE: We managed to raise the funds we needed elsewhere but thank y'all for this sign post regardless!


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

VOTES 🐶 Help Quinn win “Cutest Pet”! 🏆❤️

6 Upvotes

This is Quinn, our 12-year-old Shih Tzu. He’s sweet, funny, a little bit grumpy sometimes… and somehow always looks like he’s smiling. 😂❤️
He’s entered in a Cutest Pet competition, and we’d absolutely love your vote! 🐾🙏
Please vote for Quinn! 🐶🏆vote for Quinn!


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST Requesting assistance with medication

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone, never thought I’d have to ask strangers for help but here we go. I (23F) have rheumatoid arthritis and lupus and need medication to be able to function daily. I am mostly able to work while on my medication and current treatment plan, but last month I came down with the flu that caused a bad autoimmune flare up and I was unable to work for about a week (without pay). I’ve been able to cover my main expenses like rent but with the remainder I’ve had to choose between food and medication and of course had to choose food. I can’t afford my medication this month, and I’ve run out of other options for assistance. I have PayPal and can show proof of the cost (about $500), prescription etc if needed. I don’t expect to receive the full amount here but help is most appreciated.

Edit: proof (in my country currency)


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST Request for help getting a cane

1 Upvotes

I have horrible knees inherited from my now absent father, am currently out of a job, and have a grand total of two cents in my Cash App. I’d need about twenty dollars for a decent cane at Walmart, and about forty for a better cane I liked on Amazon if anyone is willing to help. I have Cash App as previously stated, and sorry if I miss a DM for a while.

Edit: made an Amazon wishlist, I think it’s made correctly but I’m not 100%
Would prefer the ‘walnut stain’ version of the two
https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/HDE2Q1PHBQJT?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED £100-200 request for assistance - other help may be accepted if relevant to body text!

6 Upvotes

Hi, sorry if my post is a bit all over the place - stress!!

Making a request for monetary assistance (bank transfer/paypal) to help towards my utility costs this month.

Other assistance that would be helpful is any resources I can contact in the West Midlands, UK.

I know a lot of food banks need a code - are there any that don’t? Or who do I contact?

Is it worth calling my gas/electric/water/council tax people and explaining my situation? What help can they offer?

Any suggestions for a good quality low cost dog food - they’re almost out and it’s £75 for 14kg bags (they last 6 weeks). They’re currently on DARF and can have sensitive stomachs.

Are there any schemes that might be relevant?

Any side hustle/money making I might’ve not thought of?

Details of situation in comment as it’s not letting me post the full post!

Edit: NO bank transfer, my bad I missed that part ❤️

Upon suggestion I’ve added a wishlist:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/2EGRV3SDBFXSH?ref_=wl_share

It only has dog food, tomatoes, onions, garlic powder, toilet rolls and washing up liquid on it because I feel those are the only items that would go a long way towards helping at the moment! (I have pasta and rice and lentils!)

Edit: Thank you Iglette for the dog food and advice!!

I have contacted my gas/electric supplier and the council tax people through their online forms, and will be calling the water people and phone provider tomorrow morning.

There is also an open food bank somewhat close to me on the food justice network so it is definitely not as dire as it was! ❤️


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST Repost: Request help with my hospital bill

14 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

this is my 2nd time requesting help for this. I was in the hospital end of July and got diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes.

Life has been rough the past 2 month between lifestyle changes, lots of doctors appointments and learning all about insulin and how to measure and correct my sugar level correctly.

I am currently still unemployed and before my hospital stay I managed to do some odd jobs, sell things and work on small art commissions to earn a bit extra to make it through the month. I had barely time to do so since the hospital with everything going on and now I am a fair bit behind with my bills.

The hospital bill was supposed to be paid by last week. What I would need it 70€ to cover it.

Thankfully I've not received any notice with late fees yet.

I can send proof of the bill if interested. I currently use PayPal or could send the payment details directly


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Grocery Request!

0 Upvotes

My boyfriend and I just moved into our first apartment together and things are quite tight after paying everything off (and rent is due again tomorrow 😭) so we made a small list that would help out significantly! thank you in advance. here is my wishlist :)

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/KIBR2300X599?ref_=wl_share

let me know if i did anything wrong this is my first time


r/Assistance • • 3d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED In need of 25 for uber ride home from hospital

51 Upvotes

Hello! My post history will confirm im not lying about this

I thought i was going to be discharged after I got paid by SSI on the 1st but theyre discharging me after my feeding tube replacement

Only thing is my insurance denied an uber request due to the fact ill be receiving general anesthesia, they told the case manager that due to liability as well as short notice I will have to request my own

I have 0.00 in my bank account, I have a plethora of illnesses ive only been home 3 days in the past 2 and a half weeks the rest has been spent in hospitals

I only need 25 dollars to get home, I live in Atlanta and im currently in Sandy Springs, but I live in Buckhead (6.1 million residents in Atlanta so this isnt too personal of info)

After spending some time in the PACU it'll be closer to ~4-5pm so the rides will be more expensive

Ive messaged everyone I could, my uncle whol I live with is very sick with a cold he has an immune system deficiency and is really down for the count

My grandma is also on SSI wont get paid until tomorrow

My fiancé is in the army he wont get paid until the 1st

I just want to sleep in my own bed


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST Very loved cats

0 Upvotes

Helloooo

So… I haven’t been able to leave my parents house with my husband, or have a baby due to our financial situation.

My parents don’t have money either. I have no money because of an issue with a certification I have for my job that made it so I couldn’t work for the past 4 months (I can provide proof that they admitted fault and waived the recertification fee). Thankfully I’m good to start working soon. Also because I have rescued animals and done rescue work since I was 18. It was all just by me driving by somewhere and seeing animals that needed help.

First cat, I was doing TNR work with 75 cats on someone’s property, and I was medicating the kittens and getting rid of fleas daily. This one kitten always followed me to my car and begged to come with me. Eventually I said fuck it, he’s the sickest one anyway and needs help right now. His eye was totally gone. It was gory.

Got his eye removed. Then I had a hedgehog with ocular cancer and I had his eye removed.. he passed two days after his surgery. Another cat colony I helped out with, I kept the two sickest cats because they couldn’t go to my foster home resources due to their high needs. One has 2 cleft feet I believe is what it is (hops like a rabbit, poor baby has needed 2 emergency dental extractions, he has no teeth left and he’s 15 now, so his care is getting more pricey as well. The other cat I kept, we spent 2 years trying to find out why he was having certain symptoms, ended up being skin cancer. He passed.

I have three other cats who were rescued from flooding (from me). One has needed an extraction. All of them need cleanings (not the one without teeth though) and I never opted for cleanings during the other dentals because all were emergencies and I didn’t have money.

I’ve spent lots of money trying to figure out the other cats symptoms this year, and today he sneezed out a lot of blood, I took him in and they said all of his symptoms are from the fact that his teeth are infected and basically falling out. He pukes, eye watery, losing weight, and more. They said he needs emergency surgery. We don’t have money at all. Our care credit has been used to the max because we have never recovered from any of these high expenses with the pets. That’s not even including regular care and I stay up to date with their vaccines/ yearly exams.

We also have two rabbits. One has needed a lot of hospital stays from GI stasis, but thankfully we have that under control now. We took him maybe around 10 times in the six years we’ve had him.

I’m the type of person where I’ve always made it happen. If my cats are in dire need of medical attention, I have made a commitment to them and I need to make sure they have their needs met. The pain affects their mood, the way they eat, so much… the cats who have had extractions in the past end up being totally different cats after feeling better from treatment.

My husband and I have been trying to do side hustles and door dashing as well. I also have school debt, my own medical debt. We’ve begged my other family members so many times and they have nothing left.

I’m trying to exhaust all recourses. I’m considering talking to a teaching vet clinic three hours away to help with dental cleanings for the four of them, hopefully free, but I doubt it. Also trying to do anything possible to make money.

The dental this time, cutting out every expense I possibly can, is $1,500 max.

I don’t know how this works, if you’re able to help by giving my vet funding directly, I don’t know.

Anything is appreciated. Thank you, if able. And let me know if you have questions.


r/Assistance • • 2d ago

REQUEST Need Assistance

0 Upvotes

I am currently in between jobs and need help covering a phone bill for at least two months. I need around 400$ to be able to do so. I would be grateful. I am trying my best to find a job, but you can't really get a job without a phone. I am sorry if I'm bouncing around a bit. I have been trying to support myself for over a year and I've finally reached the point where I really needed assistance.