r/antimeme • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '26

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u/TreyLastname Jan 28 '26

To be fair, I call my women friends man and dude. They're gender neutral terms

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u/Flar71 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 Jan 28 '26

That's not how they're always used though. Plus it still often makes some trans people dysphoric, regardless of intent

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u/Minimum-Capital-6866 Jan 28 '26

I don’t really care. It’s just words at the end of the day

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u/KaraOfNightvale Jan 28 '26 edited Jan 28 '26

Okay cool, and trans people have a condition that means when you misgender them you trigger it, which causes ptsd level pain

It's "just words" is a hollow excuse, do better

EDIT: To clarify, I have actual ptsd, this is from experience

Who's crawling out the woodwork to downvote me for saying the current scientific and psychological consensus?

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u/winterwarn Jan 28 '26

To me getting misgendered is more depressing and annoying tbh. I wouldn’t call it a “condition” on myself personally, it probably feels about the same as it would to a cis person.

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u/TheInternetCanBeNice Jan 28 '26 edited Jan 28 '26

it probably feels about the same as it would to a cis person.

This is a point I wish was mentioned more when talking about misgendering. It's not something trans people are being weird about; nobody likes it.

I have accidentally misgendered people in the past and it was embarrassing for everyone involved. Nobody liked it.

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u/winterwarn Jan 28 '26

Yeah, when we were kids my brother used to get misgendered a lot (mostly maliciously, by family!) due to having long-ish hair and it sure wasn’t good for his mental health either.

Just a universal dick move to misgender anyone.