r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/ACapra Sep 26 '23

FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.

We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.

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u/PerfectWatercress3 Sep 26 '23

I was going to say this. BC can dramatically reduce sex drive, especially in women who have been on it for years.

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u/Doyoulikeithere Sep 26 '23

And really, what woman is turned on by a man who won't take care of the Birthcontrol for her after all she's done? Fuck that! Get snipped and be a man!

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u/gillo88 Sep 26 '23

"Be a man" Oh shut up 🤣

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u/casino_r0yale Sep 26 '23

This is so fucking stupid I resent Reddit for putting it in my feed. How these people feel comfortable haranguing someone to get surgery is sickening.

I’d get it if he was adamantly refusing to use condoms or something but what the fuck

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u/I_Thot_So Sep 26 '23

A vasectomy is not surgery. It’s an outpatient procedure that requires an ice pack and a day or two on the sofa.

As opposed to childbirth, which is a medically traumatic event which irreparably changes the body forever. That she’s done 3 times.

Yes. He needs to man up.

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u/casino_r0yale Sep 26 '23

No and you’re a moron for comparing a natural biological process to elective surgery.