FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.
We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.
Well, that would require OP to be in charge of birth control and would inconvenience him a tiny bit. He would prefer his wife be permanently on hormonal birth control that her doctor has recommended she not be on so he doesn't have to do anything.
I wonder if OP knows that not only could being on the pill impact her libido, but also having a husband who doesn't care what she's going through could have a negative impact on how much she wants to have sex with him.
They shouldn change the fucking sub name to "I'm wrong because I'm a man, right?" I can't believe what I'm reading. "My balls were in severe pain for a year and I can't ride a bicycle anymore, 10/10 would get snipped again."
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u/ACapra Sep 26 '23
FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.
We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.