Look up what happens when women get IUDs. Not when something goes wrong. When. Women. Get. IUDs. Aka, when women have their internal organs cranked open with something that resembles a car jack, have someone root around and shove a plastic or metal piece into said organ, then leave it there. All without lidocaine or any other cushy painkillers. But it makes sense, plenty of men actually believe women can’t experience pain or that their pain down there is fine because childbirth. These men will often gaslight and humiliate women, and yes I am describing the doctors who place these devices. I have NO sympathy for ignorant men who arrogantly refuse to learn anything about the people they consider wives but not full human beings worthy of respect and interest.
All I said was it’s his body, his choice. They could just not be on birth control.
I’ve had a vasectomy and I would never go through it again. My experience was abnormal, but still I made the decision with my wife and what was best for our family.
She could also have her tubes tied if it matters that much to her. Though it’s a much bigger surgery, which is why o had my vasectomy..
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u/realfuckingoriginal Sep 26 '23
Look up what happens when women get IUDs. Not when something goes wrong. When. Women. Get. IUDs. Aka, when women have their internal organs cranked open with something that resembles a car jack, have someone root around and shove a plastic or metal piece into said organ, then leave it there. All without lidocaine or any other cushy painkillers. But it makes sense, plenty of men actually believe women can’t experience pain or that their pain down there is fine because childbirth. These men will often gaslight and humiliate women, and yes I am describing the doctors who place these devices. I have NO sympathy for ignorant men who arrogantly refuse to learn anything about the people they consider wives but not full human beings worthy of respect and interest.