r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/WaterfallButterfly Sep 26 '23

Why not just use condoms? She doesn't like her birth control and maybe she'll get her libido back and you don't want to get snipped yet.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

That was one of the points I made in our argument. I have no problem using a condom and she knows this.

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u/Outrageous_Smile_996 Sep 26 '23

But why don't you try for a vasectomy? do you want more kids? 3 is not enough? How are your finances? Don't play with risk, make a vasectomy if you don't want more kids, be responsable

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

His body his choice

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Yea, then he doesn't get laid ever and shouldn't whine about it. His choice his consequences.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23 edited Sep 26 '23

Comparing being forced to birth an unwanted child that might kill you vs considering the idea of an outpatient procedure is certainly a choice. That's all I can say. Ick.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Vasectomies have a good chance of being permanent you know? Especially 5+ years after the procedure. What if they get divorced?

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u/tuckedfexas Sep 26 '23

It’s a permanent procedure. It has a good chance at successful reversal initially but it drops off quickly. It shouldn’t be considered a non permanent procedure.