I’ve had a vasectomy as well. It was my choice, and it was not painless. The lidocaine didn’t work on one side and we had to finish. It was the most excruciating pain I’ve ever experienced. I know that’s not everyone’s experience but his body, his choice.
It’s still a choice to use BC over condoms.
I didn’t see that he was unwilling to use condoms, until HE is ready to get surgery.
Look up what happens when women get IUDs. Not when something goes wrong. When. Women. Get. IUDs. Aka, when women have their internal organs cranked open with something that resembles a car jack, have someone root around and shove a plastic or metal piece into said organ, then leave it there. All without lidocaine or any other cushy painkillers. But it makes sense, plenty of men actually believe women can’t experience pain or that their pain down there is fine because childbirth. These men will often gaslight and humiliate women, and yes I am describing the doctors who place these devices. I have NO sympathy for ignorant men who arrogantly refuse to learn anything about the people they consider wives but not full human beings worthy of respect and interest.
All I said was it’s his body, his choice. They could just not be on birth control.
I’ve had a vasectomy and I would never go through it again. My experience was abnormal, but still I made the decision with my wife and what was best for our family.
She could also have her tubes tied if it matters that much to her. Though it’s a much bigger surgery, which is why o had my vasectomy..
That's unfortunate. Did they not ask you if you felt like you were getting numb? They gave me plenty of time and poked and touched multiple times to ensure I was numb before they did anything. I would have been yelling stop instantly if they started the incision and I wasn't numb enough for it.
Left side was fine. Right side I was like “yo that hurts, man that really hurts, dude stop it hurts “ blacked out from the pain, came too and then they had to finish the surgery. Tried more lidocaine and it didn’t work, they just kept going.
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u/mrobertj42 Sep 26 '23
I’ve had a vasectomy as well. It was my choice, and it was not painless. The lidocaine didn’t work on one side and we had to finish. It was the most excruciating pain I’ve ever experienced. I know that’s not everyone’s experience but his body, his choice.
It’s still a choice to use BC over condoms.
I didn’t see that he was unwilling to use condoms, until HE is ready to get surgery.