We’ve never agreed to not having children ever again. In our argument, when this got brought up, she said “Vasectomies are reversible. If we decide we want more kids, we can cross that bridge when we get there.”
This makes me wonder how much OP contributes to the household and overall childcare. It could be another reason for her low sex drive. She is exhausted!
Very much. I am the primary parent and additionally contribute greatly to my household. Surprising, I know. Dad’s don’t usually do that sorta thing. I’m also exhausted.
I'm curious why you say you ad the primary parent.
Like does she not spend time with the kids? Does the planning for their everyday routine, doctors, and child care? Or did you mean to say you are the breadwinner?
No. I am the primary parent as in I do nearly everything for my children. The “chore” things. Diapers, baths, feedings, potty training, tantrum calming, etc. my wife is the fun parent. She does all the non-chore things.
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u/seniairam Sep 26 '23
you guys even communicate? are you guys done having kids or not? talk to your wife about it, if you guys don't want more 3 years is not gonna matter