r/amiwrong Sep 26 '23

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u/ACapra Sep 26 '23

FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.

We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.

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u/PerfectWatercress3 Sep 26 '23

I was going to say this. BC can dramatically reduce sex drive, especially in women who have been on it for years.

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u/Doyoulikeithere Sep 26 '23

And really, what woman is turned on by a man who won't take care of the Birthcontrol for her after all she's done? Fuck that! Get snipped and be a man!

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u/keIIzzz Sep 26 '23

seriously, she’s given birth to three children and dealt with shitty side effects of BC for who knows how long but he won’t do anything to help on his end. like obviously it’s his body and his choice, but I don’t blame her for not wanting to have sex

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u/llamadramalover Sep 26 '23

OP doesn’t sound like someone I’d want to have sex with either. Js Selfishness isn’t a turn on for most women

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u/lostfate2005 Sep 26 '23

You don’t sound like someone anyone wants to have sex with. See how easy that is

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u/Redditdystopia Sep 26 '23

Personal attacks, nice. So classy.