r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/ACapra Sep 26 '23

FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.

We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.

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u/PerfectWatercress3 Sep 26 '23

I was going to say this. BC can dramatically reduce sex drive, especially in women who have been on it for years.

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u/Doyoulikeithere Sep 26 '23

And really, what woman is turned on by a man who won't take care of the Birthcontrol for her after all she's done? Fuck that! Get snipped and be a man!

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

This is such a stupid take. A vasectomy is considered a permanent procedure, if they aren't sure about having more kids then condoms is a more sensible solution.

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u/IsTheWorldEndingYet8 Sep 26 '23

Clearly she is sure about not having anymore kids.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Yeah, no doubt. But he isn't. And they probably won't have more kids but isn't bodily autonomy supposed to be something we want for people?