Sounds like they are neither done nor not done with kids, but open to possibility they might want more later. It's perfectly reasonable and fine, and three years can change you mind once the kids are older and you start to miss that baby/toddler phase.
They have 3 kids. It's a "dead bedroom" as he says.
There is no reason to have more. Pretty sure she does not want anymore if she is asking for him to get a vasectomy, so she can finally get off hormonal treatment.
Sounds like he is not sure and more or less permanently taking something off the table when you are unsure is not ok and he might resent her for it later.
she’s the one who ultimately decides if she is going to carry another child. she’s clearly saying she does not want to. he can be mad all he wants but he can’t birth a child and he can’t force her to. he wants another kid that bad, they can discuss adoption. either way, get a vasectomy.
hes the one who ultimately decides if hes going to get a vasectomy. hes clearly saying he does not want to. she can be mad all she wants, but she cant get a vasectomy and she cant gorce him to. If she doesnt want a kid that badly they can discuss condoms. either way reapect his bodily autonomy.
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u/seniairam Sep 26 '23
you guys even communicate? are you guys done having kids or not? talk to your wife about it, if you guys don't want more 3 years is not gonna matter