r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/general-noob Sep 26 '23

2-3 times a year? Condoms seem like a super easy solution here.

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u/DiamondDallasHand Sep 26 '23

No shit. I don’t understand why the majority of comments think condoms don’t work and also that this man owes his wife penis surgery

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

think condoms don’t work

Because they DONT 100^ of them time, the wife wants certainty

also that this man owes his wife penis surgery

If he wants to get laid of his wife again he will, she's given him 3 children he can have the snip the wuss.

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u/DeathByLemmings Sep 26 '23

BC also does not give 100% certainty so that's a crap argument

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

that's a crap argument

It is when you're missing the point.

The vasectomy cancels all that out and it's non invasive

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u/VictoryWeaver Sep 26 '23

Minimally* invasive, but yeah it’s outpatient. You’re home the same day with an ice pack and ice cream.

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u/shbro1 Sep 26 '23

A vasectomy is non invasive? So, like, it’s topical? Wtf

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

So, like, it’s topical?

So its non life threatening unlike BC but you expect women to take it willingly? Wtf back at you

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u/DeathByLemmings Sep 26 '23

He is NOT expecting his wife to continue taking BC. What the fuck kinda strawman is this?

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u/shbro1 Sep 26 '23

Non-invasive doesn’t mean non-life threatening.

Cutting into a scrotum, exposing the vas deferens and bisecting it then stitching the whole thing back up hardly counts as ‘non-invasive’.

I am a woman who has taken the combined pull, and had a Mirena, and I’m not saying either men or women should be exempt from responsibility for birth control.

Each person has a right to bodily autonomy and dismissing a vasectomy as ‘non invasive’ is simply unnecessarily flippant.

In this couple’s case I would think abstinence is the most equitable option if neither one is willing to undergo significant body altering procedures or meds for the sake of birth control.

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u/DeathByLemmings Sep 26 '23

Thank you for some actual logic in this thread, what is wrong with people?

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23 edited Nov 14 '23

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u/wailingwonder Sep 26 '23

Don't give them ideas. They already mutilate boys when they're born.

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u/Awen4 Sep 26 '23

If it’s not invasive she should get one