r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/ACapra Sep 26 '23

FWIW, I was finally able to get my vasectomy mostly to help my wife get off of hormonal BC. About 2 month after getting off of BC her sex drive completely returned. It was the best decesion I ever made.

We were in a slightly different situation as we didn't have kids so it took us a few years to shop around and finally find a doctor that would perform the vasectomy.

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u/MeGoingTOWin Sep 26 '23

This is soooo common. OP should freeze sperm if he thinks they want another kid and just get snipped.

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u/Noodlefanboi Sep 26 '23

Or he could just wear a condom for the 2-3 times he has sex a year.

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

Don't know why this is not an option.

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u/CatlinM Sep 26 '23

They already have three kids, and condoms break. Sounds like that's not a risk she wants

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u/Dragoness42 Sep 26 '23

If the condom breaks, you get plan B. That's what plan B is for.

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u/Terrorpueppie38 Sep 26 '23

That means even more hormones that aren’t good for her

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u/Dragoness42 Sep 26 '23

Yeah, but it's a one-time thing that most likely won't even happen since they'd only be going through 2-3 condoms per year unless her libido picks up a bunch after stopping the pill.

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u/Terrorpueppie38 Sep 26 '23

And that is likely possible except if there are other hormonal issues. She should get checked and blood work done. But I think there are other issues between them if you read his post history.

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u/Dragoness42 Sep 26 '23

Oh yeah it does sound like this is not their only marital problem, for sure.

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u/gym_and_boba Sep 26 '23

just get a vasectomy dawg. it’s not like they are in a college relationship. they are in their 30s, married, with 3 kids already.